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All My Friends by Marie NDiaye

caitpoytress's review

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4.0

When I was shelving this book, I almost clicked the 'poetry' tag without thinking about it. That's how gorgeous NDiaye's prose is. What a beautiful, tragic little book.

This is also one of the most difficult short story collections I've ever read. Not in a bad way, just in that it required more effort and concentration on my part. There is no gradual introduction to any of the stories; instead the reader is dropped right into the middle of the story - sometimes in the middle of a conversation - with no idea who is speaking to who or the context of their situation. It's kind of like being blindfolded before being led into a room with a party already in full swing. For this reason I wouldn't recommend this as an introduction to the short story form - the ambiguity might be off-putting. For those who already love short stories though, read this book. Especially the stories "The Boys" and "Revelation".

elenajohansen's review

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1.0

Much like the other NDiaye book I tried to read, I couldn't connect with this. Especially here, in short story format, so much is elliptical. I read the first story assuming a female narrator, both because the author is a woman and so am I, so with no other context...and then, on page 6, I finally found a pronoun! The narrator was masculine! And that actually made the story creepier and more off-putting, since it was all about him trying to interfere with his maid's (and former student's) marriage, on behalf of a friend who was also a former student. If I understood the plot correctly--and I'm honestly not sure I did--it was incredibly vile, making me uncomfortable. Why would I want to read a story from that perspective? What should I feel but contempt for a man who would blatantly (but ineffectively) set out to destroy someone's marriage, and not even for himself, but for someone else?

That set the tone for my entire experience. I was never quite sure who was meant when a character/narrator was referring to someone else. I'm glad this was short, because I had a truly difficult time matching pronouns to characters. And I never felt anything but discomfort, contempt, or disgust toward any of the characters. I'm not a fan of the "awful people doing awful things" school of literature.

mimooo's review

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challenging dark mysterious reflective tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

Ndiaye’s usual themes (claustrophobia, alienation, malevolence, dogs, humiliation, ressentiment) out in full force in these 5 disturbing stories 

rdebner's review

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3.0

An odd little book, whose stories end on uncertain notes, seemingly unfinished... perhaps reflecting the incomplete, damaged characters within.

ldv's review

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2.0

When it comes to novels, I like getting dropped into the middle of a story and having to collect clues along the way to get the whole picture. However, with most of the short stories in this collection, I could not pick up enough to clues to really get the whole picture and felt I had to make assumptions or guesses. And sometimes I felt like the object at the centre of the picture was too obtuse for me to grasp. Perhaps that is my reading, perhaps the writing. There were times when I found the sentences so long and full of so many phrases that I lost the thread -- I felt like a high school student trying to make sense of Dickens. Other times I could not determine pronoun antecedents and thus was left with an ambiguous sense of the action. She may be a good writer, but she's not for me.

jooniperd's review

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3.0

probably 3.5-stars, really.

well... what a peculiar and haunting collection of stories. NDiyae is an elegant, lovely writer. there's a lyrical or poetic quality to her writing. her ideas are really... dark and twisty, which makes for quite a juxtaposition to how beautiful her storytelling feels. the stories were troubling. 'the boys', in particular, was quite unnerving. while i read the english translation, i feel jordan stump, serving as translator, has done an excellent job as the moodiness and emotion of each story was definitely and strongly evoked. this isn't a book i would recommend for everyone, but if you love short stories, and dark oddities, definitely check this collection out. i really want to read [b:Three Strong Women|13155297|Three Strong Women|Marie NDiaye|https://d.gr-assets.com/books/1344369394s/13155297.jpg|7011163] now. i think the novel form will work better for me, but i was very taken with NDiaye's writing.
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