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christine_beatrice's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Sexual violence, Panic attacks/disorders, Toxic relationship, Sexual assault, Misogyny, Sexual harassment, Physical abuse, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Pedophilia, Rape, Gaslighting, Drug abuse, Mental illness, and Emotional abuse
maiahhtratchh's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Sexism, Gaslighting, Sexual violence, Stalking, Toxic relationship, Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, and Sexual content
Moderate: Panic attacks/disorders, Suicide, and Medical content
Minor: Death of parent and Animal death
jordanleigh321's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Graphic: Pedophilia, Sexual violence, Abandonment, Drug use, Forced institutionalization, Gaslighting, Toxic relationship, Adult/minor relationship, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, and Sexual content
evalotteli's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Child abuse, Toxic relationship, Adult/minor relationship, Pedophilia, Gaslighting, Physical abuse, Rape, Emotional abuse, Sexual assault, and Suicide
Moderate: Addiction, Sexual content, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Animal death, Sexual harassment, Alcohol, Alcoholism, and Death
Minor: Vomit, Animal cruelty, and Drug use
amnahahmad's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Graphic: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Vomit, Violence, Toxic relationship, Suicide, Stalking, Sexual violence, Sexual assault, Pedophilia, Suicidal thoughts, Sexual harassment, Rape, Mental illness, Gaslighting, Child abuse, Sexual content, Sexism, Panic attacks/disorders, and Misogyny
molly_hn's review against another edition
5.0
This book is a complex portrayal of trauma, child sexual abuse, and it’s responses to it. We see how memory formation is so impacted and shaped by her abuser and how shame creeps into the scene of her own sexual identity, the subtlety of being told one is but a mirror to the other. It feels wrong to rate a book about such a controversial topic and an unflinchingly complicated depiction of grooming and coercion. Coercion is examined from the perspective of the subject of that treatment, a subject who cannot see herself so (‘There are things he needs to believe in order to live with himself, and it would be cruel for me to label these as lies’)… it feels wrong to rate a book about that so highly. It is controversial. It is triggering. It is really difficult to read. The words are unflinching but the read is a flinching one. While the story is not my own, Vanessa resonated with me and my experiences deeply. I could see elements of me in what was explored. And for that resonance alone, I think Russell deserves all the stars.
Projective identification is so stark within the dynamics and is captured at its very essence. The dependence feels heart wrenching. Our own guts twist and turn as we feel the stone of dread on behalf of Vanessa. I wanted to save her. And I realised that I have rarely held that desire for myself. Save myself.
There is a subtle depiction of transgenerational aspects of trauma and attachment style. We see how the pride in ‘knowing how to protect her, myself, everyone at once’ creates extreme vulnerability. What we prize as good principles to foster, can often be our downfall if held too rigidly. The interweaving of mum into the novel is just… it’s subtle, realistic, beautiful and unblaming. The novel does not hesitate to draw upon the treatment of trauma survivors more generally in our ‘informed’ society, where the responsibility to speak out is often too harshly placed at the feet of those who have endured. The morality tightrope of judgement in this arena is a fierce one and the absence of compassion, but the beginning of a bridge towards it, is captured by Russel. Words can be weapons and language so often, as observed by Vannessa in her reading of Titus Andronicus, can so often fail in the face of horror, violence and human-to-human harm, particularly when the harm is ‘hidden’ and internalised.
I am fearful that my own words here are not doing justice to the work that is this book. As I said, for the resonance in my personal psyche alone, Russell deserves all the stars.
Graphic: Child abuse, Sexual assault, Adult/minor relationship, Gaslighting, Emotional abuse, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Suicide, Suicidal thoughts, Alcohol, Panic attacks/disorders, Abandonment, and Grief
martzi's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Vomit, Sexual violence, Gaslighting, Fire/Fire injury, Drug use, Child abuse, Alcohol, Violence, Pedophilia, Toxic relationship, Suicide attempt, Suicidal thoughts, Sexual content, Sexual assault, Rape, Injury/Injury detail, Grief, Death of parent, Blood, Suicide, Sexual harassment, Panic attacks/disorders, Mental illness, Fatphobia, Animal death, and Adult/minor relationship
kia_y_k's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Alcohol, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Toxic relationship, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, and Sexual content
Moderate: Sexism, Gaslighting, Death of parent, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Child abuse, Cursing, Sexual content, Misogyny, Grief, Emotional abuse, Alcohol, Toxic friendship, Toxic relationship, Sexual violence, and Sexual harassment
Minor: Body shaming, Emotional abuse, Adult/minor relationship, Sexual content, Death of parent, Cursing, Alcoholism, Medical content, Misogyny, Toxic relationship, Pedophilia, Mental illness, Sexism, Sexual harassment, Toxic friendship, Vomit, Sexual assault, Rape, Panic attacks/disorders, Grief, Gaslighting, Drug use, and Child abuse
snowypineapples's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
As the authour said "It should be difficult to read and it should even be difficult to talk about but I feel like as a culture we're at a moment where we're ready to lean into these questions"
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual harassment, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Alcohol, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, and Drug use
Minor: Cursing, Suicide, Suicide attempt, and Trafficking
schivakumaran's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Sexual harassment, Adult/minor relationship, Pedophilia, Gaslighting, Child abuse, Toxic friendship, Sexism, Rape, Misogyny, Sexual violence, Sexual content, Sexual assault, Alcohol, Toxic relationship, Panic attacks/disorders, Mental illness, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Death of parent