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Beartown by Fredrik Backman

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livbowman's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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livsparks01's review

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challenging emotional reflective tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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kefowler's review against another edition

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emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75


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ainoiisa's review against another edition

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emotional

5.0


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kallsypage's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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nalaban's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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nattybumpo's review against another edition

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dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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schneehutte's review against another edition

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emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

It has been quite a long time since my friend first recommended me this book. She is quite a fan of ice hockey, and overall sport-themed stories. So it was no surprise to me that, when I asked her what the book was about, she said: "It's about hockey". I was a bit skeptical at first. I know little to nothing about hockey, the most I've seen were memes and funny compilations of plays on Youtube (and some guys hitting each other, apparently you can do that in hockey). My friend added: "It's not JUST about hockey, though". 

That was true. It isn't just about hockey. One might even say it is not about hockey at all, you could take any other sport and use it as a substitution, and the message would have been just the same. However, the game interplay is described perfectly, you can tell the author did some research and has a good grasp of how the sport works. I have seen and heard of many books that just pick a background theme for the sake of the plot, but hockey here is well integrated into the narrative, and it feels like part of its core. It wouldn't surprise me if hockey fans actually referenced this book as a way of inspiring people to see how interesting the sport is. 

And even then, this book isn't just about hockey. It is about rape, and how it affects all the people involved - victim, perpetrator, family and friends, and supporters. It has to do with culture and sexism, victim-blaming, politics, and parenting. And all themes are handled very delicately and realistically, which is something I really enjoyed about this book. It is not overly dramatic or graphic - very much not romanticized: it is exactly what it needs to be with such mature themes. It is direct, with no euphemisms, and at the same time, nuanced and well-explored. Delicate. The impact of such a heinous crime is seen from many different perspectives and can be felt by many different people in different spheres. It just so happens that the rapist plays a key role in the town, and now the town's progress and the citizens' livelihoods and in jeopardy because of what he has done. 

Wow, the population makes such a good job of portraying the "victim going to the police" as being the catalyst of the tragedy, that you tend to forget that the catalyst was, well... the rape. 

The topic of 'sport' fits very well into the theme, as it is a perfect portrayal of the so-called "bro culture" that is very much present in sports. Human beings are capable of doing horrible things when they are in a group, and it is extremely difficult to step up against your friends and the people you love when they do something you disagree with. Sports are all about groups - you are supposed to trust your teammate and defend them, but sometimes, you can't. 

This "bro culture" (I don't have a better name) is instigated in young boys today, with ideals of what is the perfect "man" and with very wrong ideas of how girls behave (or should behave). In such a small town as Beartown, dominated by a boy's hockey team and a male workforce, this culture is permitted and encouraged. And what happens when rape occurs in this town? You have to read the book to find out, but the results aren't pretty - just like in real life. Victim-shaming and doubting are very, very real, and also very, very common. It is always how the girl's skirt was too short, how much she drank, and how she interpreted things wrong. Lack of evidence. As if the word of a girl isn't enough, but the word of a boy (that says he didn't do it) is. 

Communities are powerful. We usually interpret the word as something good - we protect our community, we respect it, and we want to see it grow (even when we don't know what exactly this "it" is. It means something different for everyone after all). In this case, if it is good or bad is debatable. As it is well put by a certain character, the town doesn't know the difference between right and wrong, but it knows what is good and what is evil. I had to think about this quote a bit, but my interpretation is that the town knows what it wants: a community's success. But how they are going to get there and what are they willing to sacrifice, no one knows. 

A topic that few people talked about in this book, but I found it to be extremely well-written was parenting. How would you react if your child is the victim of rape - and more interestingly, how would you react if your child was the perpetrator? What does that say about you as a person? What kind of parent are you? Ironically, the answer the book provides is the same for all the questions above: no matter what, you can't protect your children. They grow mercilessly fast, and you don't realize what kind of person they have become. 

 
Kira is one of my favorite characters exactly because of this. Her struggle in being a mother was so well done, and so understandable. As a great lawyer, she is the main provider of the household (despite the town looking down on her for not being a stay-at-home mom), but refuses a promotion - a potential to become more financially stable - at work to spend more time with her children. But because of work, she spends the entire day out and doesn't take care of her children the way she wants to. It is by searching for that delicate compromise between work and children that she feels she has failed both. 
 

The ending is a cliffhanger, and at the same time... it isn't. It has room to continue with the story, but with a good amount of imagination, we can guess what happened. It ends realistically. I know there are two more books in this trilogy, and I have no idea what happens in them - I will just suppose they are about Benji since he also has a certain secret to share that goes against this "bro culture" of Beartown. I personally can't wait to see that develop! 

Any nitpicks for this book? None, actually! I have seen many people complaining the beginning was slow and it takes time for the plot to ramp up - I disagree. The background being laid down was necessary for the further development of the story, and I actually found interesting the way the author set the town as if it were a puzzle - you get the pieces for each character and set the full picture little by little. Much more interesting this way than just exposing everything and going straight for the action. 

A very recommendable and emotional book. Can't wait to see the series also! Shame I don't have HBO... 


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natrix's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Read this going in blind... Wow... 

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suesobo's review against another edition

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emotional slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

This is an excellent book if you can get into it for the long haul, this is how this author works. You'll get perhaps a negative First second and third impression and then you got to take the journey with him to get to the end and see if you still agree with all your initial thoughts. And along the way you're going to meet tons of characters.... and you're going to get mad and sad and happy and glad....all the emotions and frustration. And by the end you just have to decide were they right, were they wrong or what would you do in the same situations? Because even though there's right and wrong, most humans find that area of gray every single time and they always know how to justify it. What's your moral high ground? How long can you stand on your pedestal before it cracks? 

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