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schorlett's review against another edition
emotional
funny
lighthearted
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Alcohol
Moderate: Sexual content, Eating disorder, Drug use, Mental illness, Injury/Injury detail, and Medical content
Minor: Infidelity
kenziburke's review
emotional
funny
hopeful
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Content Warnings
Graphic: Mental illness
stormeno's review against another edition
emotional
funny
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Literally laughed out loud, but also had all the big feels.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Grief
Moderate: Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Eating disorder, Alcohol, and Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Sexual content
itsbumley's review against another edition
emotional
funny
lighthearted
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Characters were generally either irredeemably insufferable or too bland to comment upon. There was a single scene with representation of a person using they/them pronounds that I enjoyed the non-ceremony of.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Mental illness, and Body shaming
Moderate: Sexual content
_maddy_'s review
emotional
funny
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Content Warnings
Moderate: Mental illness, Toxic friendship, and Sexual content
nialiversuch's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Cursing, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Mental illness, Alcohol, Grief, and Body shaming
Minor: Drug use and Sexual content
bookishlittleme's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
inspiring
reflective
sad
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
So funny and so relatable! Heisey expertly portrays what it feels like to lose oneself in that dark pit at the end of the relationship before finding your way out and learning to be okay again. Although the protagonist, Maggie, is not always likeable she is incredibly human. The only way I can describe the humour is "real." This book had me laughing out loud! Wish I annotated this one for sure since I had so many thoughts while reading :) - Plus the sticky flags would go great with the excellent cover 🫶
Content Warnings
Graphic: Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Eating disorder, Drug use, Alcoholism, Alcohol, Fatphobia, and Toxic friendship
Minor: Sexual content
Divorce is the central catalyst for the protagonists story and arc.jazzy_g's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
The protagonist's experiences were very personally relatable which likely explains why I enjoyed this book so much. Now in my early 30s, I have never been divorced, nor married however I have had a few long-term relationships end throughout my mid to late 20s and found myself in very similar resulting spirals of patterns, thoughts and destructive and erratic behaviours.
Monica Heisey, through sorrow and humour, brilliantly addresses many elements of the millennial and post break-up experience including the financial struggles of trying to adapt to single life in a society where living off an average single-person salary is becoming increasingly difficult; the begrudging but often necessary return to your parents' home (often also a surprisingly healing experience); the awkward relationship with your own body; the random 'self-care' efforts to feel more balanced and 'beautiful'; the coming to terms with your bisexuality that still feels like relatively unexplored terrain; the attempts to fill a hole with random online shopping sprees; the despair, torment and fun of modern dating both online and otherwise; the depressive episodes so full of self-loathing and self-pity that you cannot see the light, end up pushing loved ones away and struggle to share in their joy; the challenges of maintaining and nourishing friendships and creating new connections in adulthood; the rabbit-hole of often bizarre Google searches (I found these particularly funny and familiar); emerging through the pain and out the other side, with better perspective, recognising that there is more, there is hope and there are much larger problems out there.
If you are a millennial and going through a tough time, or a similar experience, this book should help provide a laugh.
Monica Heisey, through sorrow and humour, brilliantly addresses many elements of the millennial and post break-up experience including the financial struggles of trying to adapt to single life in a society where living off an average single-person salary is becoming increasingly difficult; the begrudging but often necessary return to your parents' home (often also a surprisingly healing experience); the awkward relationship with your own body; the random 'self-care' efforts to feel more balanced and 'beautiful'; the coming to terms with your bisexuality that still feels like relatively unexplored terrain; the attempts to fill a hole with random online shopping sprees; the despair, torment and fun of modern dating both online and otherwise; the depressive episodes so full of self-loathing and self-pity that you cannot see the light, end up pushing loved ones away and struggle to share in their joy; the challenges of maintaining and nourishing friendships and creating new connections in adulthood; the rabbit-hole of often bizarre Google searches (I found these particularly funny and familiar); emerging through the pain and out the other side, with better perspective, recognising that there is more, there is hope and there are much larger problems out there.
If you are a millennial and going through a tough time, or a similar experience, this book should help provide a laugh.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Mental illness
Moderate: Body shaming
alysereadsbooks's review against another edition
dark
emotional
funny
hopeful
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
This is one of my favorite books of the year! Listened to it on audiobook, but really loved it. It legitimately made me laugh out loud at times. A lot of dark gallows humor. It's so realistic that it's slightly painful and cringey at times, but also made me love Maggie more. Definitely going to read again.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Grief and Mental illness
julianh's review against another edition
emotional
funny
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Content Warnings
Moderate: Alcohol, Grief, and Mental illness
Minor: Cursing, Drug use, and Eating disorder