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queerghstbuster's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Racism
Moderate: Lesbophobia and Suicide
overwaterer's review against another edition
4.5
Moderate: Racism
Minor: Rape
venusdapoopiehead's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Abortion, Racism, Suicide, and Child abuse
Moderate: Rape, Homophobia, and Schizophrenia/Psychosis
christie_evelyn's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Racism
Moderate: Sexual assault, Racial slurs, Child abuse, Abortion, and Suicide
Minor: Homophobia and Mental illness
michaelion's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Death, Grief, Suicide, Xenophobia, and Racism
Moderate: Sexual assault, Child abuse, Ableism, Racial slurs, Child death, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Drug use, Abortion, Sexual content, Injury/Injury detail, Misogyny, Death of parent, and Self harm
Minor: Cultural appropriation, Mental illness, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Pedophilia, Cancer, Domestic abuse, Abandonment, Fatphobia, Outing, Infidelity, and Animal death
amelody's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Drug use, Forced institutionalization, Abortion, Animal death, Death of parent, Homophobia, Infidelity, Racism, Sexual content, and Suicide
reading_mermaid's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Suicide, Abortion, Child abuse, and Suicide attempt
Moderate: Racism and Sexual content
Minor: Death of parent, Child death, Animal death, Injury/Injury detail, Rape, Alcoholism, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , and Incest
quirkilybookish's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Abortion
Moderate: Self harm, Violence, Suicide attempt, Mental illness, Suicide, and Racism
Minor: Rape, Child abuse, Alcoholism, and Infidelity
carly_they_themsen's review against another edition
3.5
i have to read this again cause a lot if it went over my head. i read this as part of a book club but no one else showed up the week we read this book :[
still i thought it was really iconic and there were several passages like the part with the milk bottles, and the last chapter, and the part at the factory with the x ray machines, all really made an impression on me and im going to try to read it again when i am smarter so i can appreciate it more
[june 2023]
i had the chance to return to this book a year later, after reading sister outsider, and got to discuss it with a different book club. in many ways i enjoyed it even more this time. i appreciated her description of her relationship with her mom, and the meaning of the title and the polyamory stuff that comes up at the end of the book was clearer also. i was also able to enjoy the poetry and the language more this time (:
going to stick with a 3 star rating, which i think is as high as ill go with memoir (other than in the dream house, which is kinda of different and doesn't count). to some extent, much of what i worried i didn't get on the first read was actually just kinda of boring/ cliche, ene though there was also a ton i appreciated much better.
audre lorde is based! please read this : )
Graphic: Abortion
Moderate: Child abuse, Xenophobia, Rape, Racism, Sexual violence, and Homophobia
waytoomanybooks's review against another edition
3.5
Please heed all the many, many content warnings I and others have tagged.
Graphic: Toxic relationship, Child abuse, Body shaming, Lesbophobia, Abortion, Death, Fatphobia, Bullying, Classism, Infidelity, Grief, Domestic abuse, Misogyny, Suicide, Toxic friendship, Physical abuse, Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury, Ableism, Animal death, Child death, Homophobia, Death of parent, Sexual assault, Emotional abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Medical content, Self harm, Medical trauma, Suicidal thoughts, Mental illness, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexual harassment, Rape, Sexual violence, Sexism, Sexual content, Violence, and Suicide attempt