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The Sense of an Ending by Julian Barnes

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alisylvi's review against another edition

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reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? N/A
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

1.5


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lettersinthemargins's review against another edition

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dark mysterious tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

The book is narrated by Tony, a man in his sixties. He is investigating the circumstances of a certain suicide. Tony is not reliable in terms of judgement, but his candour in expressing his insecurities was a refreshing male perspective. I found myself rushing through the book because parts of it claim the crime fiction pace to keep us guessing till the end. It is interspersed with some pure philosophy that seeps under your brain folds and tickles you nicely. More than anything, it is the insecure cishet man's follies and slips that I loved about the text. In some parts, the comparisons between Margaret (ex-wife) and Veronica (ex-girlfriend) were unnecessary, but in others, interesting. I thought the ending itself felt short of the hype it builds. It does deliver shock value, though. And the blame that Tony takes, and Veronica sort of excessively, mysteriously pushes on Tony felt unnecessary. 
The book makes you ask yourself questions just as Tony asks himself questions. Are we the sum of our own choices, or the sum of the coincidental paths we are sometimes pushed into? Can time belong to us, or is it there, and we flow through it? Is memory our own tale, or the tale of what happened in time? How are stories anything but false if we are writing from memory? Why do friends flow against time, what is it about time that gives you perspective like nothing else? 
For interspersing these tea-time/curtain staring thoughts with a possible share in a certain crime, and life revaluated by memory and time, read the book. 

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jcstokes95's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional mysterious reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

This novella manages to expertly craft an deep exploration on self-perception and memory. It gives you what might, in any other book, be considered plot twists. But really, they seem...to borrow from Tony...philosophically self-evident. Any person trying to reconstruct their life and its meaning, is only going to see from their perspective and feel like the victor writing the history book. Veronica's (often irritating) crash landing into Tony's adult life, force him to think about his actions from a new perspective.

If you are someone who pours over moments from high school and college, and think about how right your were. If you sit with your friends from those days and gossip about people who you only remember a decade's old version of. Then maybe you will relate to this. I personally felt it yanked me into remembering my own regrets about how I misperceived or treated people. I highly recommend this book for creating a small guilt spiral about your own choices. 

I will say, this feels like an incomplete review, because this book really begs to be ripped apart piece by piece. If you have a book club, this would be an excellent choice. You could talk about everyone's biggest regrets of youth and see if you still have a book club at the end. 

[2021 Popsugar Reading Challenge #11 - A book about forgetting]

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