she_reads_'s review against another edition

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challenging dark informative reflective slow-paced

4.25

tomstbr's review

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4.0

Some pretty challenging ideas. Mostly suicide, not so much antinatalism. Arguments are mostly coherent but at times felt like conclusions were foregone.

mahir007's review against another edition

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5.0

المسافة بين وهم التصرف الحر وعالمنا هي مقياس لعبء الحياة الملقى على عاتق أي شخص يولد في مجتمعنا. في عالمنا، ينتحر حوالي مليون شخص فقط سنويًا بنجاح؛ وفي غياب القيود والتكاليف، فإن هذا العدد سيكون أعلى من ذلك بكثير. إن "استدلال الجدوى الأسهل في العالم" الذي وضعه برايان كابلان غير صحيح. إن ولادة الإنسان تلقي عليه حملاً قد يضطر إلى تحمله بالرغم من رغبته الحقيقية في التخلص منه. إن تربية الأطفال بطريقة متعجرفة وطائشة ليس خياراً مسؤولاً أخلاقياً. يجب أن ننظر بشكل أعمق لتحديد ما إذا كانت ولادة طفل معين هي في مصلحة ذلك الطفل.
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Sarah Perry
Every Cradle Is a Grave
Translated By #Maher_Razouk

thebearnest's review against another edition

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informative reflective medium-paced

3.0


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amittaizero's review against another edition

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3.0

I knew nothing about Perry going into the book, and her arguments seemed at first to be wide-ranging and disconnected from each other. Connecting the book to her personal history, however, ties it together much more effectively. She settles into a kind of absurdism: we are here, we want meaning but can't have it without making it ourselves -- she deviates here from absurdism by choosing not to make meaning, or be part of a story -- living instead in an "epilogue." Maybe a third way between herself and Camus.

I certainly can't consider myself an antinatalist. It's an unrealistic philosophy that ultimately shrugs its shoulders and lives in impossibility.

kalle_b's review against another edition

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4.0

Thoroughly enjoyed reading a more well thought out rationalisation of my own views. Author is weirdly sexist at points though.

lilsuccubus's review against another edition

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1.0

I went into this book very excited, but ultimately, the organization and writing were downright awful. This book reads more like a Twitter thread or an incompetent undergrad's paper than a book. When I read at the end that Perry is a housewife and this is her first book, it all made more sense. I'm hopeful I can find some better books on the topic, not this disorganized drivel.

beeoe's review against another edition

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dark informative medium-paced

4.25

ptrmsschrs's review against another edition

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4.0

excellent introduction to suicide and antinatalism

Before I had finished this book, I thought it was written by a Professor in philosophy or ethics from some fancy University. Imagine my surprise when the author turns out to be "a housewife in San Antonio, Texas". Apparently she has a blog too, which, I'm sorry to say, I haven't read yet.

The author's credentials aside, this is an excellent introduction to the ethical side of suicide and creating new life. I was particularly impressed with Mrs. Perry's arguments pro-suicide, which doesn't mean that we shouldn't help people who are in emotional or physical pain, but which does allow each individual the decision about the value (meaning, happiness, or whatever you like to call it) of their own lives and if a person decides it would be better for him/her to end life, then society should provide the means for it. I realize that this isn't a particularly popular idea, but it is definitely worth thinking about. And the author certainly gives us plenty of things to think about.

P.S. But please change that hideous cover of the book (a painting by the late Dr. Kevorkian).

david_nash's review against another edition

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3.0

Interesting ideas, but the writing is a little dry, and they're not tied together particularly well.
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