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I’m going to buy a physical copy. I really want to be able to highlight and take notes. 
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This book is an absolute powerhouse of information and inspiration. 
If you, like I was, are a cis person who finds yourself confused by trans issues, trans rights, and trans athletes. 
I HIGHLY recommend this book. It has given me new perspective on things I didn’t know I didn’t understand. 


I found myself in tears hearing the pain from the stories told. 

I send my love and light to the author. 
Personally thanking him for putting this work of art into the world. 

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h20baby's review

4.25
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bookwormmoo's review

5.0

An incredible memoir-esque resource for queer people and our allies alike ♥️

annekinsey's review

5.0

As a queer and trans nonbinary person and professional who works with other queer folx, I have been recommending this book for allies. This book is an insightful window into trans experiences, as well as what allyship looks like in terms of action and I am so thankful to have something like this to recommend. This book will saves lives, and no doubt already has.

janmacwill's review


This is an excellent book for learning about a subject that is new to some of us. I highly recommend it. It is pretty long, and the library sucked it back before I finished it. I decided not to compete with the many others who were/are waiting for it.

katek23's review

5.0

Listened on audio - clear, helpful, direct. Incredible courage from Schuyler in his desire to educate and invite folks in to build understanding.
Especially loves his thoughts on how the transgender community challenges and threatens patriarchy and how that is what has made them a target of such hateful & harmful rhetoric.
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