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ollieez's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Sexual violence, Transphobia, Abandonment, Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Sexual assault, Rape, Death of parent, and Pedophilia
Moderate: Homophobia, Abandonment, Death of parent, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Bullying, Physical abuse, Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Pedophilia, Dysphoria, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, and Transphobia
lizardgod's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
BL Checklist:
- Are all love interests adults (18+)?
- No
- Are all love interests enthusiastically consenting?
- No
- Is there any NSFW scenes?
- Yes
- Does someone get SA'd?
- Yes
- Is there homophobia?
- Yes
- Is there a seme/uke dynamic?
- Yes
- Do one or more love interests have a tragic backstory?
- Yes
- Do one or more love interests have bad parents?
- Yes
- Do one or more love interests die in the end
No
- Do one or more love interests abuse the other(s)?
- Slightly
- Is there a good, established plot?
- Mostly
Notes: Sad but average. Nothing great to note and I could understand why people may hate the 'cross-dressing' aspect because it's genderfluid but not. I didn't hate it, but I do wish the author had gone about it differently.
Graphic: Abandonment, Child abuse, Outing, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual content, Sexual harassment, Vomit, Dysphoria, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Toxic relationship, Blood, Violence, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Adult/minor relationship, Cursing, Grief, Transphobia, Bullying, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Mental illness
radclyffe_uhaul's review against another edition
Graphic: Pedophilia, Homophobia, Sexual violence, Rape, Child abuse, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Biphobia
Minor: Infidelity
fred___'s review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Mental illness, Rape, and Child abuse
Moderate: Sexual assault, Body shaming, Sexual violence, Bullying, Dysphoria, Grief, Pedophilia, Death, Kidnapping, and Emotional abuse
enter_the_phantom's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
2.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Transphobia, Rape, Sexual assault, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Sexual harassment and Homophobia
neomuded's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
But the way other kids suspected what Arima’s gender is heartbreaking. It wasn’t theirs to declare. But then again, how are the kids going to learn?
I was crying by the time he Arima had to pull down his pants to give proof that he is a guy just to stop someone from doubting what he is and what he identifies as. It must be so hard.
It must be so heartbreaking to want love and to receive it with a chain of expectation that you must be a gender you don’t identify as but still keep the thought because it’s the only way you receive love.
I love the conversation between the boys. How they open up to each other, how they urge Taiga to take accountability for what he did, they recognize it was bad (although i do think they also need to switch uo their views cos they thought the same at first, but baby steps!).
I haven’t seen much of boy growing pains culture but I love seeing it here.
You’ve broken my heart and repaired it 100 times over. I will always love this book.
It’s such a raw take on love, both as a kid who did not have a very clear grasp on love and had a very traumatizing young life, this is such an important story.
Graphic: Sexual violence, Sexual assault, and Pedophilia
wiktoria_bojda's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Pedophilia, Homophobia, Transphobia, Sexual assault, and Sexual violence
alaspooriorek's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
First, I want to mention that this book is marketed to the wrong audience. Everything about the cover and description of this book seems like it's a lighthearted, meet cute, teen romance, but that's very, *very* wrong. There are some serious, frankly triggering, scenes all throughout this manga. I normally don't care for marking triggers, because I feel like people should do their research before going into a book, but I am here to say right now: This book has some explicit scenes that deal with gender confusion, child abuse, child sexual assault, and an overall lack of consent on many levels. Please be aware of this before reading this manga. I do not believe the publisher has done enough to warn its readers about the content of this book.
As for my review. I have been thinking about this book since I put it down a week ago. In many ways, I respect this manga for giving such nuanced characters and conflicts. I did not enjoy the experience of reading <i>Boy Meets Maria</i>, but I can appreciate some of the elements it presents. Arima/Maria has been traumatized by the past. I am actually unsure what pronouns to use when referring to the character, because the character themself does not know. And that's one of the central conflicts of the book. Arima/Maria is figuring things out. They are not succeeding in a healthy manner and it's incredibly painful to experience with them. I, myself, cannot speak on how gender dysphoria feels, so I can't speak to how accurate this portrayal is. Arima/Maria does terrible things because they are hurting and don't know how to get help. Does it excuse how terrible those things were? No. But I appreciate that the author wrote such a complex character.
Taiga's mother died when he was young. He's lost faith in his father and feels a consuming loneliness that he hides from his everyday friends. His desire to become a famous actor so he can become a hero in people's eyes stems from the fact that he desperately wants a hero for himself. Against the complexity of Arima/Maria's character Taiga might seem simple to figure out, but his character growth is immense throughout the manga volume.
In regards to certain scenes, I will mark the following part of the review as spoilers. All the triggers mentioned before apply to this part of the review.
Second, there is an explicit scene of child rape in this manga. It is graphic. It is violent. It is painful and uncomfortable to read. I, ultimately, do not feel that the manga gains anything from just how graphic this scene is. Maybe this is where my opinion will differ from others, but I do not believe it was necessary to show the actual rape happening to prove that it happened to Arima/Maria. It felt like a step too far into torture porn rather than showing that an incredibly scary, painful, traumatic event was occuring. Perhaps how graphic the rape was and showing it was the important part of the story, but I can't say I agree.
I appreciate <i>Boy Meets Maria</i> for being brave enough to show life and trauma being how it is: messy, complicated, heart-wrenching, and layered. It think it's important sometimes to read books that make you physically and mentally uncomfortable. This manga just went a little too far for me. Normally I don't write reviews this long, but I thought it would be important in this case.
<i>Boy Meets Maria</i> 3/5 stars
Graphic: Sexual assault, Transphobia, Self harm, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Rape, Terminal illness, Pedophilia, Toxic relationship, Stalking, Violence, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Grief, Emotional abuse, Dysphoria, Death of parent, Homophobia, Hate crime, Infidelity, Panic attacks/disorders, Blood, Child abuse, and Mental illness
kaiajimenez's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Pedophilia, Sexual assault, Child abuse, Sexual violence, and Rape
Moderate: Transphobia, Homophobia, and Death of parent
leonalikesliterature's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.0
I felt conflicted about Yuu’s character. I sort of wish Yuu’s story hadn’t been just based on their r@pe and that their gender confusion wasn’t rooted in multiple layers of trauma, because the story does perpetuate the idea that people are trans or nonbinary because they are traumatized. There are also a lot of questionable scenes or words said between the two leads that I think crossed multiple lines, which is a shame because Taiga and Arima were so cute together when they were sweet.
Overall, this story was tragic, and at times also funny and up-lifting, however, it was definitely imperfect.
Graphic: Rape, Sexual violence, Transphobia, Pedophilia, Sexual assault, and Homophobia