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4.05 AVERAGE
4.05 AVERAGE
As an introvert, I found myself nodding and agreeing with much of the book. The premise of the book is that in society extroversion is preferred over introversion, in work, in school, in families, in relationships, and so on. Susan Cain shows us that shouldn’t always be true. Introverts make up about 1/3 to 1/2 of the population. Introverts are necessary in society. In fact, in many situations introverts make better leaders, partners, friends, co-workers, etc.
She shows us what traits introverts have and how those traits can be used as power to help you excel in most situations in life. She provides research studies as well as real life examples. She shows us how introverts can do their best in the workplace, in school, in relationships. As well she has great points for bosses on how to get the most out their introverted workers. As well, there are chapters that show parents things they can do if they have introverted children and also a chapter for teachers of introverted children. Basically the new “groupthink” method of teaching isn’t the best for introverts as well as the new open office space plan isn’t the best for introverts either. There are sections on helping introverts become better public speakers as they often have a fear of public speaking yet sometimes will have to do it.
I saw there is a young adult version that is geared towards teenagers and while I haven’t read it I bet if it had been available when I was a teen it would have done wonders for me. Kids who are labeled shy tend to think it is a bad trait to have and it often gets worse rather than better if this line of thinking is reinforced over and over. Teachers writing in report cards, she is very smart but hardly talks in class, etc. Parents as well may say my child is too shy in a negative way and that makes the child think there is something wrong with them. Parents should follow their child’s lead and give them the quiet time they need, allow them to skip play dates or leave early from parties if they are overstimulated, let them follow their passions even if it is something solo like reading or drawing and not a group activity.
I think introverts will enjoy this book because they will see themselves in it as well see what most introverts hopefully know, that they do have a lot to give if people would just give them the chance. I also think extroverts should read the book so they can get a better understanding of how introverts think and maybe give them ideas for better working amd personal relationships with introverts in their lives.
She shows us what traits introverts have and how those traits can be used as power to help you excel in most situations in life. She provides research studies as well as real life examples. She shows us how introverts can do their best in the workplace, in school, in relationships. As well she has great points for bosses on how to get the most out their introverted workers. As well, there are chapters that show parents things they can do if they have introverted children and also a chapter for teachers of introverted children. Basically the new “groupthink” method of teaching isn’t the best for introverts as well as the new open office space plan isn’t the best for introverts either. There are sections on helping introverts become better public speakers as they often have a fear of public speaking yet sometimes will have to do it.
I saw there is a young adult version that is geared towards teenagers and while I haven’t read it I bet if it had been available when I was a teen it would have done wonders for me. Kids who are labeled shy tend to think it is a bad trait to have and it often gets worse rather than better if this line of thinking is reinforced over and over. Teachers writing in report cards, she is very smart but hardly talks in class, etc. Parents as well may say my child is too shy in a negative way and that makes the child think there is something wrong with them. Parents should follow their child’s lead and give them the quiet time they need, allow them to skip play dates or leave early from parties if they are overstimulated, let them follow their passions even if it is something solo like reading or drawing and not a group activity.
I think introverts will enjoy this book because they will see themselves in it as well see what most introverts hopefully know, that they do have a lot to give if people would just give them the chance. I also think extroverts should read the book so they can get a better understanding of how introverts think and maybe give them ideas for better working amd personal relationships with introverts in their lives.
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An essential read for everyone, introverts and extroverts alike. As an introverted person I learned so much about both introverts and extroverts. I feel validated in how I've felt my entire life, context of relationships and experiences, personal and professional, feel more clear, and I walked away with some tangible action items to apply everyday. I laughed out loud at her description of a public speaking experience in Chapter 4. Nonfiction is difficult for me but I looked forward to reading this every time I picked it up, it was easy to read even with all of the studies and data and I appreciated the extensive amount of research.
"Love is essential; gregariousness is optional."
"Solve problems, make art, think deeply."
Loved it!!!! It was interesting and informative. Would suggest it to anyone who knows or lives with an introvert.
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Probably in my Top 5 favourite non-fiction books of all time. Incredibly informative and well-written, I'd highly recommend this to anyone!
This book made me feel good. It is the type of book that manifests personality tests into comfortable language. Cain mixed in psychology with thoughtfulness and the result was something that was inspirational and thought provocative. Questions like “should I try to be more extroverted?” and “why do I sound so detected/overly emotional in an argument?” were answered through anecdotes of other introverts.
I felt less alone in my quiet headspace. I do wonder if this book could have been equally impactful without so many flushed out stories though. Some of the lessons could be boiled down to simpler phrases.
I felt less alone in my quiet headspace. I do wonder if this book could have been equally impactful without so many flushed out stories though. Some of the lessons could be boiled down to simpler phrases.
A compelling and important argument that I found relevant to my personal and professional life. In the days since reading it, I've found myself noticing pro-extrovert culture everywhere. However, I didn't find the writing as engaging as I would have liked (lots of "in one study, researchers found...")-- definitely worth reading, but I wish the book were a bit shorter and less reliant on very generalized descriptions of studies.
Muy interesante. Algo predecible en cuanto a su estructura pero de teoría + ejemplos, pero en general es un libro que contribuye a abrir la mente a las diferentes formas que tenemos de vivir y de expresarnos. Recomendado.
Unfortunately, the blurb is much more interesting than the actual thing. The first few chapters are fascinating but later on it starts seeming too repetitive and I lost interest in it.