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Everything Sad is Untrue by Daniel Nayeri

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brogan7's review against another edition

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challenging emotional funny informative sad medium-paced

4.0

My son (age 14) did Not like this book, even though I skipped several sections in our read aloud and summarized them for him later (he couldn't stand the graphic descriptions).

I thought it was incredible, an epic tale for young readers.  The history and mythology of Persia combined with the experiences of an immigrant boy from Iran who gets bullied in Oklahoma... it's like a tale from an ancient man about a young boy (who is himself).  Heartbreaking and heart-affirming in that he uses the stories and the long, long historical context to weave himself into a bigger fabric, the long view, the possibility not just of survival but of mythology.

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mabellene's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0


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theglossreview's review against another edition

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I wished I had checked the content warnings before. Terrible things are described graphically. Just awful. 

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talita_koum's review against another edition

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emotional funny lighthearted reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

Beautiful and honest reflection on childhood, all those quirks and experiences which form a person. Author has a unique voice. Messages are at times a little too obvious (which makes the narrator even more endearing). Climax somewhere in the 200s and slows down at the end. Themes of memory, family/tradition, flaws, and Christianity. 

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fairhairedwarrior's review against another edition

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5.0


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passionatereader78's review against another edition

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challenging informative medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

I don't like the writing style. I enjoyed the stories that were told. I didn't like the way the author jumped around and then explained why what happened in 3 pages ago was important. I love the mother in the book. The way she stayed strong and stood up for what she believed in was inspiring. I loved seeing the growth in Daniel as he tells the story from age 5. Interesting read.

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kristinareadz's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional funny inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5


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denisehiller's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5


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cassiealexandra's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful inspiring sad tense slow-paced

4.75

Wow. It took me quite a while to get through this “middle grade/YA” book, but it sure was worth it. Nayeri tells the story of his immigration from Iran to Edmond, Oklahoma with so much detail and humor. This is mainly due to the choice he made to share his memories through the lens of his seventh-grade self. Everything was beautifully written and the strong voice we get in middle school Daniel is mature and wise beyond his years, which makes sense with his refugee experience. He takes us on a meandering path from his earliest memories of grandparents to his most recent memory of his father coming from Iran to visit America, paying his classmates a hello as well. Daniel takes us from Iran to London, to Dubai, UAE, to Italy, and eventually settling in Oklahoma. From start to finish I was captured by the stories, enveloped in his experience, and forced to think about my own memories and life’s meaning.

My one issue was that it included perhaps just a little too much middle-school humor, bathroom talk in particular, but it is definitely true to the junior high boys I have worked with in the past or know presently. This is a me thing, a personal preference, but even in these sections, Nayeri makes points about class, immigration, and social standing.

I said the prose was meandering. There are no chapter divisions and one story bleeds into another, sometimes circling back at a later time. Daniel tells his story as a modern-day Scheherazade, holding the interest of his audience throughout. At one point, Nayeri writes: “Mrs. Miller says I have ‘lost the plot,’ and am now just making lists of things that happened to fill space. But I replied that she is beholden to a Western mode of storytelling that I do not accept and that the 1,001 Nights are basically Scheherazade stalling for time, so I don’t see the difference.” If I had any trouble with this book, it is likely because I am also beholden to a Western lens.

The bottom line: This was a beautiful fictionalized memoir written from the perspective of a seventh-grade boy, full of hope and heartache.

— NOTES —
Genres: literary fiction; middle grade to YA, but maybe more accessible to adults
POV: first-person, single
Content: domestic violence, refugee experience, divorce, animal death, mentions of war

— MY RATING CONSIDERATIONS —
(all out of 5)

Pace: 4
Enjoyment: 4.5
Craft: 5
My Gut Feeling: 5
Total Stars: 4.625 

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haren_k's review against another edition

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challenging reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0


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