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A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara

44 reviews

blakeisik's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.5

Very difficult to pinpoint how i feel about this book. Beautifully written, but full of trauma-porn.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Blood, Hate crime, Pedophilia, Self harm, Sexual harassment, Ableism, Classism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Car accident, Gore, Homophobia, Rape, Chronic illness, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Suicide attempt, Suicidal thoughts, Addiction, Death, Domestic abuse, and Sexual content

mskingbean69's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional informative mysterious reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Abandonment, Pedophilia, Sexual assault, Alcohol, Blood, Body shaming, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Panic attacks/disorders, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Self harm, Sexual violence, Suicide, Ableism, Chronic illness, Death, Kidnapping, Mental illness, Rape, Sexual content, Confinement, Death of parent, Eating disorder, Hate crime, Medical content, Physical abuse, Toxic friendship, Body horror, Bullying, Car accident, Gore, Sexual harassment, Child abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Forced institutionalization, Medical trauma, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, Torture, Toxic relationship, Trafficking, Violence, Vomit, Classism, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, and Gaslighting

corrina_milito's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

Perhaps the most deeply tragic book I’ve ever read, A Little Life is a beautifully written heartbreaker. The abuse and violence relentlessly endured by the protagonist, Jude, is so unimaginable that at moments it seems egregious, salacious even, and almost distracting. The beauty and perseverance of deep and meaningful friendship, however, kept  me coming back for more. The depth and dimension of Yanagihara’s characters is profound but I did find myself asking she wrote this book.  I love that she is unapologetic about her novels but I still don’t have an answer to my question. The story would’ve been just as moving with only half the atrocities. I will definitely read more of her work. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Car accident, Medical content, Rape, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Body shaming, Violence, Mental illness, Blood, Sexual content, Death, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Suicidal thoughts, Eating disorder, Domestic abuse, Torture, Emotional abuse, Terminal illness, Physical abuse, Trafficking, Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Kidnapping, Pedophilia, Self harm, Sexual assault, and Sexual violence

Moderate: Eating disorder, Addiction, Ableism, Vomit, Fire/Fire injury, and Body shaming

Minor: Drug abuse, Bullying, Stalking, Drug use, Classism, Infidelity, Death of parent, Dementia, Fire/Fire injury, Forced institutionalization, and Panic attacks/disorders

sofiam19's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Beautiful, heartbreaking… literally it’s life. Not a book I’d recommend for most people as it’s very HEAVY content. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Forced institutionalization, Pedophilia, Rape, Trafficking, Violence, Car accident, Gaslighting, Medical content, Suicide attempt, Torture, Child abuse, Classism, Emotional abuse, Body shaming, Chronic illness, Death, Grief, Racism, Infidelity, Injury/Injury detail, Abandonment, Eating disorder, Vomit, Ableism, Addiction, and Blood

cnorman4405's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

Make sure your therapist is available 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Ableism, Body horror, Chronic illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Religious bigotry, Bullying, Sexual content, Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Medical trauma, Pedophilia, Self harm, Vomit, Mental illness, Blood, Dysphoria, Rape, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, Trafficking, Violence, Abandonment, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Suicide, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Sexual assault, Classism, Death, Forced institutionalization, Gaslighting, Grief, Hate crime, Homophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Kidnapping, Medical content, Toxic relationship, and Stalking

Absolutely beautiful, heartbreaking, and traumatic

mennaesque's review against another edition

slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

don’t read this book. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Drug abuse, Drug use, Grief, Self harm, Stalking, Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Ableism, Suicide, Blood, Child death, Classism, Sexual assault, Suicide attempt, Chronic illness, Emotional abuse, Rape, Terminal illness, Toxic friendship, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual violence, Abandonment, Death, Homophobia, Physical abuse, Toxic relationship, Forced institutionalization, Hate crime, and Suicidal thoughts

delisouseyelids's review against another edition

dark emotional sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

WHY IS IT SO SAD

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body horror, Body shaming, Car accident, Drug use, Sexual content, Sexism, Racism, Physical abuse, Sexual violence, Sexual harassment, Adult/minor relationship, Blood, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Self harm, Rape, Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Toxic relationship, Religious bigotry, Classism, Homophobia, Gore, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Child abuse, Suicide attempt, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Violence, Suicidal thoughts, Sexual assault, Ableism, Death of parent, Suicide, Injury/Injury detail, Grief, Addiction, Bullying, Pedophilia, Mental illness, Medical trauma, and Medical content

zayzay2's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.75

I could speak about this book for hours. It's beautifully written which is why the ratting is higher, if it isn't for the writing and some of the lovable characters such as jude's mother and dad, I would have rated it a 1/5. The characters were very diverse when it come to race, sexuality, personalities, jobs, class, options which I loved seeing the different characters interact and think it was insightful. I don't usually read slaw based books as it puts me in a reading slump but I was hooked, the writing had me on my toes and I never knew what would come next (except the ending). Now the things I didn't like the characters watched while Jude suffered they saw how BAD he was struggling, most of the responsibility was on he's doctor(he's friend) and he's later boyfriend. They new how bad he wanted to die he attempted suicide, he self harms severely and they saw but no one put him In a mental hospital which is legal. He was a danger to himself and no one forced him to go which frustrated me, if I loved my partner I don't care how much they will hate me after it's my responsibility to get them help. He refused therapy at first so you know he won't do it if he's not forced, he's doctor has the responsibility and I see as neglect he let he's love for him get in the way and he's feelings which is no excuse. I kept thinking 'come on guys!!' it felt like I was watching a plain crash and I knew the ending was coming, it felt unfair that Jude had to live with all that trauma and pain and he didn't help the only answer would obviously be suicide. I did not see William dying at all my mouth was hanging, I'm glad I didn't see spoilers from that. He's dad bless him didn't know how bad Jude was and he's mom was clueless, so really it's only he's bestfriends and the doctor that new the state he was truly in. I felt a lot of neglect from the characters in behalf of Jude he's a mentally unwell person, also interesting that he's sexuality was ambiguous as he has only been with men from teenage-hood due to rape but no mention of him exploring with women. Meaning trauma can manifest in your 'sexuality' even though we don't know and I think did he know he's real sexuality not that it mattered to me just interesting note I saw. The ending for me of almost half of the characters dying was shooking didn't see that coming, which also makes sense why Jude ended up committing suicide 'what's the point of life now?' as he was only living for William. Also found it interesting that the writer didn't fake it and say he finally lived for himself we knew he didn't want to, so he had to live for someone and that was William now that he's gone what is left in this world?. Didn't like how Jude's mental health was described as I the reader started to feel rained from him rather than feel sorry, I started to feel nothing for him as he left no room for anyone to comment. If anyone said anything to help him he would self-harm and shut down which no one wanted, so they would not help and try and get him support like therapy , therapy wasn't needed a MENAL HOSPITAL WAS. I didn't see the need for the extreme trauma porn, there was no lesson learnt for the reader, there was no understanding of read mental health as not a lot of people go through what Jude went through. 50 things in he's life is impossible and no one could handle such things, it's the worst care scenario which didn't really need to be there could have been a real life story that was written.   

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Blood, Bullying, Suicide attempt, Violence, Fire/Fire injury, Homophobia, Mental illness, Adult/minor relationship, Body horror, Car accident, Chronic illness, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Pedophilia, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, and Torture

Minor: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Pedophilia, Chronic illness, Pandemic/Epidemic, Physical abuse, Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Homophobia, Blood, Body shaming, Body horror, Bullying, Rape, Car accident, Classism, Death, Domestic abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, Hate crime, Injury/Injury detail, and Mental illness

shannon1954's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

I do not recommend this book to read to anyone unless you are in a mentally good and secure space and environment.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Emotional abuse, Death, Biphobia, Adult/minor relationship, Addiction, Sexual content, Self harm, Hate crime, Grief, Gaslighting, Sexual violence, Sexual harassment, Injury/Injury detail, Blood, Trafficking, Suicide attempt, Drug abuse, Drug use, Domestic abuse, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Homophobia, Suicide, Medical trauma, Classism, Chronic illness, Child abuse, Car accident, Toxic relationship, Racism, Physical abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Medical content, Toxic friendship, Fatphobia, Cursing, Body horror, Ableism, Mental illness, Eating disorder, Child death, Body shaming, Rape, Xenophobia, Violence, Pedophilia, Vomit, and Torture

birdghosting's review

challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

This is a book that will stay with you for a very long time, for better or for worse. It seems you either love or hate this book, and I came out loving it (even though I ugly cried through over 20% of it—and it's a long book).

As someone who usually reads fantasy and not much set in the real world, I could not put this book down once I got past the introductory section. It was very easy for me to get attached to Jude, who the entire book revolves around (I didn't even realize when starting that this is mainly his story). I was rooting for him the entire way through, desperately wanting to know more about him at each turn as it would offer me something new as a treat.

The characters all felt like they lived real and true lives, and written to perfectly match how you're meant to feel about them in that moment. Even certain characters who I loved the whole way through made errors that I hated reading about, thought to myself that I wouldn't forgive someone doing that to me—and that's life. The relationships everyone has with each other, not just with Jude, are the strongest part of the book.

I'm not used to reading such long prose, but it was very enjoyable. I did have several moments where I would start reading one sentence and get lost among the different branching off thoughts and ideas the single sentence goes through, and I'd have to return to the beginning of the sentence to remember what it was meant to be about. This would also happen with chapters, which would sometimes go into a completely different topic than where we first started before finally circling back around. There was also a lot of academic and legal talk that made me wish I were going back to university, and I didn't have a good mind map of the locations and geography talked about, which makes me curious if someone who knows New York well would be able to picture it clearly.

I think about this story at least once a day.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Religious bigotry, Child abuse, Stalking, Car accident, Emotional abuse, Rape, Sexual content, Self harm, Domestic abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Sexual assault, Chronic illness, Eating disorder, Physical abuse, Grief, Ableism, Adult/minor relationship, Death, Pedophilia, Sexual violence, Suicide, and Suicide attempt

Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Addiction, Dysphoria, Forced institutionalization, Terminal illness, Drug abuse, Torture, Drug use, Gaslighting, Blood, Toxic friendship, Kidnapping, and Medical content

Minor: Transphobia, Death of parent, Fatphobia, Classism, Murder, and Fire/Fire injury