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alexbalmer's review against another edition
4.5
Itās something I was aware of throughout recent years, terms like āincelā and āmanosphereā have popped up in memes/tiktoks but the size of the groups mentioned and the real life examples threw me off. To see how many mass shootings and other heinous crimes can be directly linked back to the ideology of these groups is shocking, saying how little you hear the word misogyny used in a serious, non-mocking way in the media. (Usually paired with jabs at āfeminazisā and groups that are trying to HELP MENš)
STRONGLY encourage anyone who spends a decent amount of their lives online (and on any form of social media) to read this. Even if youāre a bit older and feel like you have a grasp on how to interpret content/news/facts online.
One thing that I will say (not necessarily a complaint or a mistake) but when checking the Notes at the back of the book for references on certain facts a lot of the time it would be news articles. Nothing really wrong with that except that throughout the book it is said how the media is quick to jump to conclusions when they havenāt done much research. Iām guessing Bates has looked into each sources thoroughly. Maybe itās my own preconceptions that make me pause before referencing Channel 4 in a debate?
Graphic: Cursing, Death, Misogyny, Homophobia, Gun violence, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, and Hate crime
Moderate: Body shaming and Fatphobia
Minor: Islamophobia, Adult/minor relationship, and Biphobia
cararainx's review
4.75
Graphic: Bullying, Murder, Rape, Homophobia, and Gaslighting
mindintheskies's review
5.0
Graphic: Classism, Sexual assault, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Sexism, Xenophobia, Body shaming, Bullying, Sexual harassment, Sexual content, Stalking, Violence, Police brutality, Racial slurs, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Hate crime, Islamophobia, Murder, Misogyny, Pandemic/Epidemic, Physical abuse, Emotional abuse, Grief, Racism, and Rape
allyjshand's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Bullying, Racism, Hate crime, Injury/Injury detail, Murder, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Domestic abuse, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Rape, Sexism, Gaslighting, Sexual violence, Violence, Mass/school shootings, and Physical abuse
notthatcosta's review against another edition
2.5
Most of the chapters feel unnecessarily padded out, often with repetition of previous points made that don't serve to create a cohesive narrative thread. Even in more successful chapters like 'Men Who Don't Know They Hate Women', half way through it veers off into a tangent about the 2016 election.
I understand that the topic at hand is very broad, complex and wide reaching, but the lack of focus makes it frustrating to read beyond the frustrating subject matter. With better and tighter editing I think this could have been a great book, but it ends up feeling like an unfocussed and cluttered collection of ideas and case studies with some paraphrased 4Chan posts sprinkled in.
I probably would have preferred it if the book just centred on what Laura Bates heard during her school visits and talks, rather than the need to try and summarise what she read on manosphere forums.
Moderate: Antisemitism, Gaslighting, Sexual violence, Bullying, Gun violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Transphobia, Body shaming, Sexism, Hate crime, Homophobia, Rape, Cursing, Death, Slavery, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Child death, Islamophobia, Mass/school shootings, Mental illness, Misogyny, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Violence, and Xenophobia
znvisser's review
2.5
Graphic: Misogyny, Rape, Sexism, Stalking, Bullying, Mass/school shootings, Hate crime, and Murder
Moderate: Transphobia, Antisemitism, Homophobia, Islamophobia, Lesbophobia, Racism, Sexual harassment, Xenophobia, and Sexual assault
th18's review
5.0
Moderate: Sexual violence, Rape, Sexual assault, Domestic abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Sexism, Sexual harassment, and Violence
Minor: Emotional abuse, Islamophobia, Suicide, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Religious bigotry, Toxic relationship, Eating disorder, Gun violence, Hate crime, Bullying, Mental illness, Mass/school shootings, Pedophilia, Death, and Racism
kymzii's review
3.75
Minor: Stalking, Murder, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Hate crime, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Sexual content, Trafficking, Violence, Abortion, Body shaming, Bullying, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Mass/school shootings, Rape, and Sexism
mads_jpg's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Bullying, Cursing, Misogyny, Sexism, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Hate crime, Islamophobia, Mass/school shootings, Murder, Rape, Stalking, and Gun violence
janeywaneyb's review against another edition
5.0
I have had my eyes thoroughly slapped open by this book and the spread of violent misogyny into our daily lives by the Manosphere, politicians, journalists, celebrities and others of influence through so many means that our Young people accept the ideology as a norm. This is a powerful book that offers such clarity on issues we should all be aware of and how the minority are influencing the majority filling our society with a hate rhetoric. Before starting this book I thought I knew something of incels and misogyny, nope! I knew nothing, I had no idea how deep rooted the issue is and how it is secreted into main stream politics, journalism and media to become a "norm". Bates has researched her book so thoroughly with no stone left unturned and she is shining a bright spot light that we must all look at NOW!
Moderate: Sexism, Sexual harassment, Hate crime, Antisemitism, Sexual violence, Sexual assault, Religious bigotry, Racism, Misogyny, Domestic abuse, and Bullying