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blackcatkai's review against another edition
5.0
a short memoir from Vivek Shraya about her growing up & into herself as a queer transwoman and all the internalized/societal issues shes faced involving men as well as women. she touches on tough topics but there's good things here, too. I love her writing and insights about gender itself as well as gender expression. I would definitely recommend this and will be reading more of her work in the future.
Graphic: Bullying, Body shaming, and Sexism
Moderate: Sexual content, Racism, Homophobia, Transphobia, Sexual harassment, and Sexism
Minor: Infidelity, Ableism, Mental illness, and Suicidal thoughts
lehna's review
3.75
Moderate: Dysphoria, Misogyny, Biphobia, Body shaming, Bullying, and Homophobia
bi_n_large's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Transphobia, Homophobia, Misogyny, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Racism, Infidelity, Bullying, Hate crime, and Body shaming
Minor: Suicidal thoughts and Violence
daphne_430's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Transphobia, Biphobia, Homophobia, Body shaming, and Misogyny
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Sexism, and Eating disorder
Minor: Racism and Deadnaming
lovelynovellas's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Sexual violence, Sexism, Body shaming, Misogyny, Transphobia, Sexual harassment, Homophobia, and Dysphoria
cianarae's review
5.0
Graphic: Dysphoria, Homophobia, Hate crime, Misogyny, Transphobia, and Bullying
Moderate: Body shaming, Grief, Infidelity, Suicidal thoughts, and Violence
Minor: Death
maudsmeets's review against another edition
4.5
Any ambiguity or nonconformity, especially in relation to gender, conjurers terror. This is precisely why men are afraid of me. Why women are afraid of me, too.
But your fear is not only hurting me, it's hurting you, limiting you from being everything you could be.
An informative, reflective and challenging read that combines autobiographical stories with gender theory seamlessly.
I would recommend this text to anyone. We can all learn from this and we should all learn from this, to be frank.
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Racism, Sexism, Transphobia, and Xenophobia
Moderate: Infidelity, Sexual harassment, and Sexual violence
words_and_coffee's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Homophobia, Misogyny, Sexism, and Transphobia
Moderate: Body shaming and Racism
Minor: Bullying
violet_pages's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Misogyny and Sexism
Moderate: Homophobia and Transphobia
Minor: Body shaming and Xenophobia
entanglednovels's review against another edition
4.5
Minor: Body shaming