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My Friends by Fredrik Backman

95 reviews

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Art is what we leave of ourselves in other people.

Backman is truly my favorite author. I’ve never been disappointed by one of his books. His way of telling a joke and then serving an emotional punch to the gut all in one paragraph is truly remarkable.

All of that to say, I enjoyed this book but didn’t love it. I did like the way he led us to read between the lines a bit, only to then change up the story in an unexpected way. I love the way he writes about grief and love, how he emphasizes that the mundane is actually anything but. So while I did enjoy this book, there’s just something about it that made it feel like a bit of a slog to me. Maybe the right book at the wrong time? 

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Fredrik Backman has not only such a unique way of seeing the world but also of writing stories that inspires you to reflect on and appreciate the transcendent interconnections between ordinary moments and ordinary lives. I wish I could see the world in this way all the time, but I can’t so I read Backman’s books instead.

I finished the book sobbing and laughing AT THE SAME TIME! How it is possible to elicit such strong distinct emotions in me is beyond my understanding, but that is the beauty of Backman’s writing.

Once again, I must recognize Neil Smith for the incredible translation into English. If something was lost in translation, I don’t even think it matters because it is perfect as it is.

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Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

There's a song Only The Wind by Ólafur Arnolds. When I listen to it, I feel somehow like I'm soaring and I'm falling all at the same time. I can't decide if I'm laughing or if I'm crying. Maybe it's both together. All I find myself thinking is how human I am, we all are, and how complicated that is. 
This book is that song in written form. And it is etched in my bones now.

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Solid 5⭐️ for this one! My Friends will rank in my top faves from Backman with Beartown

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

It took me a while to actually write a review of this because it honestly overwhelmed me a bit. Backman has a way of making you believe in people, and I really can't remember the last time a book made me cry this much, probably not since reading Anxious People in 2021. I literally got teary eyed reading other people's reviews just now. Don't get me wrong, it's not a sad book, it just moves you and makes you feel just about everything. I fell in love with every single character, they're so complicated and tangible, and really capture the human condition. The plot was lovely, but I would follow these characters through any story, the plot wasn't as important, I kind of just appreciated being along for the ride. This is a story about real pain, people who got so much less than they deserved, and how they dealt with it.

My first five star read of 2025, totally worth the wait, and maybe one of my favorite books I've ever read.

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Absolutely beautiful. I laughed. I cried. I thought about my own friends and my teenage years. One of my favorite books, hands down. 

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Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

6 STARS! If I had the physical copy, I would have hugged the book when I finished. I think this may be my favorite Fredrick Backman book ever. 

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"Art is what we leave of ourselves in other people."

Very mixed feelings about this. Some lines and bits were really beautiful but overall the writing wasn't for me. Too many hyperboles, metaphors and puns in every sentence, it all felt quite over the top for me. 
Also not very politically sensitive (ableist language was very present amongst other things)
I loved the found family trope though!

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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