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My Friends by Fredrik Backman

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emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I definitely didn’t begin this expecting a road trip (on a train), but that’s largely where this story takes place.

Louisa ran away from a foster home to see her favorite work by a famous artist. She discovers someone she assumes is homeless behind the church (having the art sale), to whom she shares her story of the painting and her love of art. This all begins her journey of learning the history of the painting.

This story is for those who love:
Found family
Art
Road trip stories
Coming of age

The story alternates between this train trip and the history of the figures in the painting. It tells each character’s back story. They were all from a rough area of town and have tragic stories. But she is a girl who understands tragedy, and they all recognize her as one of them.

“Because in an ugly place, he was born with so much beauty inside him that it was like an act of rebel-lion. In a world full of sledgehammers, his art was a declaration of war.” P20

“Oh, those are all our very best moments, when we're wasting our lives. It's an act of magnificent rebellion to do meaningless things, to waste time, to swim and drink soda and sleep late. To be silly and trivolous, to laugh at stupid little jokes and tell stupid little stories.” P39

“We never get that age back again, when every friend is a childhood friend, we measure all infatuations throughout our lives against that.” P78

“When sufficiently wealthy people want something bad enough, it becomes invaluable, because then art isn't experienced through the eyes, but by the ears, they're not paying for a picture but for its name and his-tory. In their world it isn't the artist who should be admired, it's the owner, because only something which has a price can have any value.” P96

“…nothing is more valuable at auction than an unfulfiled life." P111

“…he and Mom weren't like two magnets. They were like two colors. Once they were mixed together, there was no way of separating them.” P319

“…how life is so fragile, coincidence decides so much, it takes so little to change everything.” P377

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Loveable characters: Yes
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Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

This book was absolutely beautiful. So emotional and well-written. Every time I thought I knew how the story would end, it twisted just enough to keep me on my toes. I had the privilege to attend a stop of the book tour for this one before I read it and I’m so glad I did. Hearing the author speak about the personal connections and people in this life that inspired the characters made the themes/motifs even more powerful to me because I knew how raw of a place they came from. Overall, a powerful message about friendship and relationships as a whole and how belief in others and who they are can have a massive impact on your life. I can’t recommend this one enough. 

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

This is a complicated book for me to review. The writing is beautiful but at some point, I find it frustrating to constantly being purposely led in one direction with expectations for the next part of the story only for things to take a totally different turn. It’s an interesting approach when used judiciously but this storyline felt like it relied too much on that trope. 

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