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My Friends by Fredrik Backman

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

This book is such a complex and beautiful representation of friendship. 

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My friends will transport you back to your childhood, to your first group of friends who you promised you would be friends forever. It is funny, and charming, and heartfelt. I absolutely loved this book and I wish I could read it again for the first time!

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Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: No

It always takes me a while to acclimate to a Backman book, and this one was a bit of a rough ride. 🚂 Truthfully, it wasn’t until about the halfway mark that I began to care for its characters. I found myself wishing that Ted would just tell Louisa his story chronologically already—the walk down memory lane was more of a dizzying maze than a nice stroll. Funny enough, Louisa started getting mad at Ted for this, too! That said, the novel deals with many difficult topics which I thought were handled beautifully. Overall, a sad book, but I just wasn’t SAD, you know? Get your notebook out because there are a lot of characters to keep track of. Oy vey!

“It’s a funny thing. The person we fall in love with, we hardly ever call by their name. Because it’s somehow just so obvious that it’s you I’m talking to, that it’s you I’m always thinking of. Who else?”

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The way that Fredrik Backman writes characters and relationships feels so special to me. I feel like he has an understanding of humanity that he is able to express so incredibly well in his writing & I rarely read other books where the characters feel so intensely human and real.

This might be my new favorite of his books, though I'm always partial to stories that highlight the importance of art and friendship, so I was absolutely the target audience for this. 

Also idk why this isn't marked as lgbtqia+ but one of the main characters is achillean, so if you're looking for more books with queer characters this fits that bill as well (though it isn't an excessive part of the plot, it still felt important to the story to me). Also, I believe at least one of the characters is strongly implied to be autistic.

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Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I loved this book, perhaps a new favorite. Backman captures the human spirit so beautifully. This is a story about love, friendship, art, and what connects us. Just beautiful. 

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Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

There's a song Only The Wind by Ólafur Arnolds. When I listen to it, I feel somehow like I'm soaring and I'm falling all at the same time. I can't decide if I'm laughing or if I'm crying. Maybe it's both together. All I find myself thinking is how human I am, we all are, and how complicated that is. 
This book is that song in written form. And it is etched in my bones now.

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Solid 5⭐️ for this one! My Friends will rank in my top faves from Backman with Beartown

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Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

It took me a while to actually write a review of this because it honestly overwhelmed me a bit. Backman has a way of making you believe in people, and I really can't remember the last time a book made me cry this much, probably not since reading Anxious People in 2021. I literally got teary eyed reading other people's reviews just now. Don't get me wrong, it's not a sad book, it just moves you and makes you feel just about everything. I fell in love with every single character, they're so complicated and tangible, and really capture the human condition. The plot was lovely, but I would follow these characters through any story, the plot wasn't as important, I kind of just appreciated being along for the ride. This is a story about real pain, people who got so much less than they deserved, and how they dealt with it.

My first five star read of 2025, totally worth the wait, and maybe one of my favorite books I've ever read.

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