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Boyfriend Material by Alexis Hall

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queerloras's review

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emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

I love Alexis Hall and I can't WAIT to read Husband Material.

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shelvesofivy's review

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emotional funny hopeful medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75


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inkdrinkers's review against another edition

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emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Luc O'Donnell is kind of a hot mess, in every definition of the words. He's the son of a rockstar who won't talk to him or have a relationship with him, working at a dung beetle charity aptly named CRAP, and somehow still managing to wind up in the press every other weekend for his drinking benders. When his negative press starts to effect his work life, he decides he has to at least appear like he has his shit together by fake dating a handsome lawyer who might just hate him.

This was my first ever Alexis Hall book and I absolutely ADORED it. I was told multiple times by multiple friends that I had to pick this up in the audiobook version because it was just so enjoyable - and they were right. I did originally try the ebook version of Boyfriend Material and gave up pretty soon into chapter one because I wasn't connecting to Luc's internal monologue, that did a complete 180 with the narration in the audio version! I adored learning about Luc's life and difficult background, I've never seen a book handle the concept of celebrity kids who just want to exist and be normal as well as this one did.

Oliver Blackwood is easily one of my favorite messy male love interests in anything I've read this year. Both him and Luc are total disasters in their own way, but even with that and a lot of their interests being total opposites of each other - it somehow really made it work. I totally adored how loving and adorable Oliver was through a vast majority of this book, and really found myself laughing out loud multiple times a chapter from the hijinks and very British jokes.

The only thing I hated about this book - and hate is a strong word - was the way Luc finds himself agreeing to the fake dating. The entire thing hinges on his very asshole boss saying he needs to be a "better gay" and get his shit together. The rampant casual homophobia in this book was really hard to listen to, though it's easily the most realistic part of the entire plot. I wished there had been moments for Luc to actively fight back against it, though the smaller ways he and Oliver did were good. I'm really hoping this plot gets addressed in Husband Material when I finally get a chance to listen to it!

I will say, I wasn't on board with Luc's friends in the entire first part of the book. They seemed to hinge on the line of being the same level of casually terrible that Andi's friends are in The Devil Wears Prada - but they all really grew on me and if there's anything Alexis Hall can do, it's write a well and fully formed character that I both loathe and love.

I had a great time with this audiobook and would honestly listen to it again and again. It was completely worth picking up and I found myself wanting to just relax and savor how great the narration was as it pulled me along with the story!

Content Warnings: homophobia, panic attacks, and cursing are prevalent throughout. Mild warnings for cancer, fatphobia / eating disorders / body shaming, biphobia, and mentions of alcoholism and addiction.

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taelights's review against another edition

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emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

I had previously dnf this book but I decided to go back and give it another chance seeing as the audiobook was available through the library and I wanted to listen to something lgbt+ because I had mostly been listening to thrillers a lot recently. While I started off enjoying it more this time by the end I found myself wishing i hadn't given the book a second chance. 

First of all the book dragged. It was so long and for what? Plus there is apparently a sequel too? Unnecessary in my opinion and I definitely won't be reading it. 

While I did find some of the jokes funny I felt most of them fell flat and the author was trying too hard to be funny. I felt like I was reading a "crack" fic that was trying too hard rather than an actua  published book. Plus some of the "jokes" were a bit of problematic - including rape/sexual assult ones, biphobic ones, etc. Plus I thought the book did play into some harmful stereotypes of both lesbians and bi/pan people. And as a vegetarian I did not like the way vegetarian and vegans were portrayed in this book and it felt like the author really likes forcing vegetarians to eat meat which is gross of them. 

The negatives:

1) Both of the main characters need some major therapy; both individual and couples. Yet after after a whole book dealing with their flaws and trauma and incompatibility and trust issues these things just seem to go away at the end in an unsatisfying way. I hate the whole "love will fix all your problems" thing. Like damn I hope these two characters went to therapy next book but I doubt it lol. 

2) While Oliver and Luc had chemistry at the beginning of the book I thought they lost all their chemistry. I was no longer believing in their relationship and routing for them towards the end. Plus THREE  breakups in one book is a bit extreme. By the third I kind of didn't even want them to get back together. 

3) I thought the side lesbian relationship was problematic like they play into both the lesbian age difference trope and while I personally love age gaps in general it's annoying when it's like 90% of lesbian media. Also it played into the whole gross lesbian married to man and cheats on him with a woman trope. Also the lesbian friend felt like the angry lesbian trope. 

4) I also felt that there was harmful bi/pan stereotypes in this. Like having one of Luc's ex boyfriends being a bi man who leaves a gay man for a straight woman.... It kind of plays into the harmful belief that bi people will always leave their same sex partners for a straight relationship. 

5) The characters were all extremely one dimensional. The side characters especially but so were Luc and Oliver honestly. 

6) As a vegetarian I was extremely disappointed in how the author handled a vegetarian character. Between making the vegetarian character eat meat not once but twice, the love interest who convinced him to eat meat basically commenting that it's sexy he's going against his morals and eating meat, characters acting like being vegetarian is so strange and different and such an inconvenience, and being like yeah he's obviously only vegetarian because he has an eating disorder. Honestly I between the jokes about vegans/vegetarians and the whole forcing one to eat meat just made me so uncomfortable and I honestly believe this author has something against people who don't eat meat which is weird of them. 

7) The whole reason for the fake dating plot line didn't make sense in the first place.

8) The whole plotline with Luc's dad didn't make sense and didn't have a satisfying conclusion at all and just made the whole element of the book seem needless. 

I could go on. I just really did not like this book by the end. 


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littlebutton's review

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dark emotional funny slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

This is a book about two very damaged people finding themselves in a toxic relationship. There’s also a lot of side characters who are inexplicably idiots for no real reason, although that might just be me not enjoying this book’s particular brand of humor. 

There’s a lot of overt homophobia and body shaming that’s condemned by the narrative. There’s also homophobia, biphobia, and body shaming that ISNT criticized by the narrative. 

There’s a lot of really awful parents in this book too. There’s no moment of catharsis in dealing with them either. They’re just shitty. That’s very accurate to the real world, but not at all what I was expecting in this gay YA-ish romcom. 

The side characters ranged from bizzare to awful. I started out really liking Bridget, but couldn’t stand how she behaved in the ending. 

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iamstraightasanoodle's review against another edition

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hopeful inspiring relaxing medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

4.5


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