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cloris97's review against another edition
5.0
A gorgeously designed book that sheds light on modern dating.
The journal entries by JW and TG are honest: from childhood attachment to peer pressure, they put everything that could influence this dating experiment on paper.
The subtleties and complex conventions about dating in a fast-paced city like New York can be generalized to any globalized countries.
Could this relationship work despite their own psychological issues and character differences? I really hope the answer is yes because I adore their personalities and talents. For relationships to work, however, need more work than sheer willingness.
The journal entries by JW and TG are honest: from childhood attachment to peer pressure, they put everything that could influence this dating experiment on paper.
The subtleties and complex conventions about dating in a fast-paced city like New York can be generalized to any globalized countries.
Could this relationship work despite their own psychological issues and character differences? I really hope the answer is yes because I adore their personalities and talents. For relationships to work, however, need more work than sheer willingness.
zealous_bibliophile's review against another edition
3.0
Interesting
Interesting read. I think they definitely got way too Freudian in explaining why things were the way they were, which wouldn't be a problem if all of Frued's work wasn't debunked. It and they are also very NYC, which will be readily apparently to anyone who has ever lived in NYC or has someone that they are close to who is NYC. This isn't bad, it's just NYC, especially Manhattan is a very specific mentality that doesn't extend out which hinders the relateability and ability to extrapolate their story or lessons.
Interesting read. I think they definitely got way too Freudian in explaining why things were the way they were, which wouldn't be a problem if all of Frued's work wasn't debunked. It and they are also very NYC, which will be readily apparently to anyone who has ever lived in NYC or has someone that they are close to who is NYC. This isn't bad, it's just NYC, especially Manhattan is a very specific mentality that doesn't extend out which hinders the relateability and ability to extrapolate their story or lessons.
mementolore's review against another edition
3.0
It's interesting to read this, as I followed the og 40 days of dating blog ten years ago. Growing older and tbh more cynical gave me a whole more appreciation for Tim, who yes, could be kind of a dick sometimes, but also: it's fine to be overwhelmed? I guess the dichotomy of being too forward or too coy can be confusing to people who are easily overwhelmed by decisions.
I guess the true experiment was the self discovery we made along the way. And in my case, that I would never want to date someone who falls fast.
I did enjoy reading the book, not so much the extra bits at the end. Beautiful design, much like the blog itself;
I guess the true experiment was the self discovery we made along the way. And in my case, that I would never want to date someone who falls fast.
I did enjoy reading the book, not so much the extra bits at the end. Beautiful design, much like the blog itself;
scorpiodonut's review against another edition
5.0
Two designers/ artists date for 40 days to work out their relationship issues. I've followed both of their work, so its interesting to learn about their personal lives.
Definitely made me feel better about my mess of a dating life and that everyone else doesn't have it all figured out, even really esteemed designers.
Definitely made me feel better about my mess of a dating life and that everyone else doesn't have it all figured out, even really esteemed designers.
justaguy's review
3.0
Interesting style but raw.
I really did somewhat enjoyed the different type of writing style. With a big plus of raw information. Both of them blend together pretty well for me to be constantly curious. Personally, I never had a relationship or dating too much. Of course, I have my own issues but I do enjoying hear the “the language of raw affection”. However, I gave this story three stars not because of what happened in the end. It is more about the difference between enjoying it and hooking into it. That’s why...
I really did somewhat enjoyed the different type of writing style. With a big plus of raw information. Both of them blend together pretty well for me to be constantly curious. Personally, I never had a relationship or dating too much. Of course, I have my own issues but I do enjoying hear the “the language of raw affection”. However, I gave this story three stars not because of what happened in the end. It is more about the difference between enjoying it and hooking into it. That’s why...
sandrus_'s review against another edition
3.0
What could possibly wrong if two friends decide to start dating? EVERYTHING. But somehow Jessie and Tim manage to make it a very endearing experience. If you know the blog, you know the drill. What's new are the entries after the experiment ended.
It's an entertaining read, and it made me wonder what would happen if I tried this.
It's an entertaining read, and it made me wonder what would happen if I tried this.
mr_librarian's review against another edition
4.0
I am a sucker for a good RomCom. This pretty much hits that spot in a very nonfiction way. As a story, it has all the moments one wants: hope, longing, adventure, drama, and personability. I found myself reflecting on my own relationships and how I've occupied the spaces of boyfriend and lover, as well as friend.
The design work is pretty phenomenal, which, unfortunately, is where this book falls short. It cuts into a lot of the deign work when turning to the next page, which is frustrating when the writing and art communicate with one another. I wish the editors had planned the page breaks better. This book feels much like a supplement to the website. The Website shows more graphic works and motion graphics that aren't shown (or can't be shown) in the book. I found myself reading from the book while being on the website to experience the full impact of the art work.
All in all, it's a great book to read and find more insight to the before and after of the project. As well, to relate to the ups and downs of love. 4 out of 5 stars.
The design work is pretty phenomenal, which, unfortunately, is where this book falls short. It cuts into a lot of the deign work when turning to the next page, which is frustrating when the writing and art communicate with one another. I wish the editors had planned the page breaks better. This book feels much like a supplement to the website. The Website shows more graphic works and motion graphics that aren't shown (or can't be shown) in the book. I found myself reading from the book while being on the website to experience the full impact of the art work.
All in all, it's a great book to read and find more insight to the before and after of the project. As well, to relate to the ups and downs of love. 4 out of 5 stars.
jzahlit's review against another edition
4.0
Loved it! Completely changed some thoughts on love, dating, and uncertainty. Really made me think.
justaguy's review against another edition
3.0
Interesting style but raw.
I really did somewhat enjoyed the different type of writing style. With a big plus of raw information. Both of them blend together pretty well for me to be constantly curious. Personally, I never had a relationship or dating too much. Of course, I have my own issues but I do enjoying hear the “the language of raw affection”. However, I gave this story three stars not because of what happened in the end. It is more about the difference between enjoying it and hooking into it. That’s why...
I really did somewhat enjoyed the different type of writing style. With a big plus of raw information. Both of them blend together pretty well for me to be constantly curious. Personally, I never had a relationship or dating too much. Of course, I have my own issues but I do enjoying hear the “the language of raw affection”. However, I gave this story three stars not because of what happened in the end. It is more about the difference between enjoying it and hooking into it. That’s why...