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marlmar3000's review

2.0

i saw bits of my grandparents’ story in here so that was what kept me most intrigued — really hated the parts where she put herself in the shoes of okinawans at several points in the book, felt disingenuous without the use of interviews or at least citations of other books/scholars/primary sources. i get being disconnected from your mother & family thru language barrier, but then she didn’t need to include those at all.

i’m not sure why this book frustrated me so much! i had to skim my way through the end, save for the part about them traveling to japan for the first time in a while juxtaposed w her parents in 1975, which was interesting. maybe i just have difficulty reading about someone have so much contempt for their mother even if it’s a perfectly valid emotion to hold and write about.

shahlla's review

5.0
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alanakuni's review

4.5
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just so good.

i am surprised to have connected so much. i really cant express how beautifully meaningful this book is to me.
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I am in awe at how much Elizabeth Miki Brina was able to pack into the 304 pages of Speak, Okinawa. Not only was I given Okinawa history that I knew nothing about, but it was a very introspective, honest, vulnerable, and reflective background of Brina's familial life, too.  

It was beautifully written. Brina clearly and unapologetically communicated her lived experiences with me as the reader. I believed her and felt for her, but all that said? Something was missing for me. I can't pinpoint why it wasn't a perfect five stars for me... It could just be that it followed Isabel Wilkerson's 'A Warmth of Other Suns' and 'Braiding Sweetgrass' by Robin Kimmerer, which were both masterful! But, it just didn't feel memorable to me.

If you love/are interested in:
- multicultural familial relationships
- memoirs about belonging and identity
- complicated mother daughter relationships
- US military presence in other countries
then you should check Speak, Okinawa out!
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adriananguyen's review

5.0
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5.0
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kobayashi's review

3.0
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A book dedicated for her parents. I could feel how sorry the author was towards her parents and how hard she is trying in life no matter what age she was at. A decent memoir also to speak about Okinawa. The author had a good quote to “ Love is to stay “

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sofiadanielle's review

4.25
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Ah, a lot to unpack in this book from the relationship a mixed child has with their two cultures, the feeling of being ‘othered’ for not being White, the rocky relationship of an immigrant mother with her daughter, the history of Okinawa…

It’s a bit heavy, I won’t lie. I saw some of my my own habits, thoughts, emotions, all laid out in front of me in this book, as a first generation Asian child born in America. I saw my mother and I in Elizabeth and her mother, even when I wish I couldn’t. I understand her emotions, why she went through some of the situations she did, when you just want to say: well, why would you ever do that?

Beautiful read. I find the second half to be more moving. I hope to find peace with my mother in the way Brina managed, too. 

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I related to the author’s changing relationship to both Okinawa culture and each parent. It was both a short and a long read to me. I wasn’t always totally lost in the book, but I didn’t dislike that I was reading it. I learned about Okinawa, and this book has definitely sparked my interest in the history. 
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