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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

5.0

This beautifully written memoir is brave and eye-opening.

I'd like certain influential transphobes--such as J. K. Voldemort, Elon Musk, and certain UK prime ministers, to be strapped in chairs with gags over their mouths in a room with the audio version of this book playing loudly enough that it would be impossible for them to ignore it. Maybe then they'd finally see trans people as human.

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5.0

I didn’t know much about Mock’s story before listening to this audiobook, and it was incredibly moving to hear it in her own voice. While she did an incredible job tying in statistics and the larger context of her life, she also took great care to emphasize that this is her story, which is just one of many lived by marginalized folks of intersecting identities.

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4.0


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inspiring reflective medium-paced

3.5


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4.25

This coming of age story about a young trans woman growing up in Hawaii and the intersections of class, race and gender identity she experienced was very well-written. I learned some good lessons about why framing “passing” and “realness” as desirable is harmful (“She isn’t passing, she’s merely being”). I also liked how the author spoke about how people transitioning are often described as confused when in fact it takes a lot of clear conviction to transition. I sometimes wanted a little less fact and more feeling, and maybe a little less outright teaching that pulled me out of the story, but overall this was still a great read.

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4.75

I absolutely loved this book, Mock’s writing is approachable and easy to read, though the content does get very heavy at times. The only thing I wanted that wasn’t there was more about her time in New York. But maybe she’ll write another book about that someday!

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