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I noticed a friend of mine posting about Bourdain often. I knew almost nothing about him, so I decided to take in a book by him. First, Bourdain is sexy as hell. How did I never know this?! He also gives great voice to his own words. Makes me want to be in the NY restaurant culture. Second, this is such a fun read. A bit vulgar for milder tastes, but such a great insight into the biz. 

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Ah, Anthony Bourdain... let's get it out of the way - we all miss him.

But going back to the start, I wanted to ask if after all the subsequent books and different TV shows - does the foundational text still hold up? Yes, mostly.

If someone is curious about Bourdain and they want to get a sense of the full man, then an off-episode of Parts Unknown might not be the best part. This is a true memoir: a highly personal and expansive look at the world Bourdain loved and dedicated his life to just before he became a star. I listened to it on audiobook, which he narrates, and I almost recommend that over a physical copy because the text oozes such delicious sarcasm but also the tenderest affection. It's clear that Bourdain was no cynic and clearly adored the world of restaurants and food as much as he loved to high out all its dirty laundry for the world to see. The description of going to town on the after-midnight sushi bar is outrageous but somehow inspiring with Bourdain's pen, and it made me hungry even as I started getting a headache imagining all that liquor flooding into my gut. I should mention this book is frequently gut-bustingly funny.

The book's best feature though is the love. Bourdain goes on many a rant over the variety of schmucks who start restaurants, tourists who don't appreciate the food, upstart line-cooks, lazy suppliers, and - controversially - vegetarians. It may seem petty, but it's never off-putting (even if you're a vegetarian) because all of it is borne from love not disgust. One of the quotes I'll always carry with me is "our bodies are not temples; our bodies are amusement parks." Frankly, that sounds a lot more fun and honest.

All of that being said, this book was written in the late 1990s and parts of it show. And although Bourdain was already sliding into middle age at the time, he had yet to experience some of the growth that would create his later persona as a kind of "food diplomat." Even looking past the occasional off-color jokes, a lot of Bourdain's takes have since become outdated (a friend who worked at a restaurant in New York assured me that you can dine out on the weekends now - Bourdain spilling the beans helped curb that practice). Some of his advice is also different in a new age as the restaurant industry changes. But most of all, a lot of his attitudes on treatment of staff changed over the course of his life. There's rarely a chapter that doesn't affectionately describe a common practice in the restaurant industry that people are now starting to recognize as exploitation.

In particular, Bourdain's descriptions of women left me ambivalent and cold. He professes to admiring women cooks especially, citing their toughness and grit and how they can take any stress coming their way, from the demands of the service to the harassment by their co-workers. Yet any woman will recognize what Bourdain isn't noticing - needing to build a shell around yourself to withstand constant barrage of demeaning and hostile behavior. I wish Bourdain had stopped before he praised a cook for being tough, and instead asked why she needed to grow that tough? Was that moment where she pinned a guy on the cutting board and held her knife a "cool moment" or gasping for air after yet another guy pinched her ass at work? For the record, Bourdain would later change his perspective and talk about his regrets in some parts of this book. He also became an advocate against sexual assault in the restaurant industry in the final years of his life.

While I'm knocking off some marks for everything I just mentioned, this was a terrific read. Reading such a smart, funny, and insightful man is always blessing. It may not make you want to become a chef, but I now savor of every bite of food in the amusement park of life. Unless it's overcooked meat.

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I really enjoyed this book - it's interesting, while I was very aware OF Anthony Bourdain, I don't think I knew much about him, and this is very much him unfiltered (or feels that way) - which both makes you like him more, and less, and feel very sad for what eventually happened to him. It's both a great book for people who love food and restaurants and a terrible one, as it's very honest (and often gross) but the man just loves food.

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"If you are easily offended by direct aspersions on your lineage, the circumstances of your birth, your sexuality, your appearance, the mention of your parents possibly commingling with livestock, then the world of professional cooking is not for you."

Although I am what I would call an entry level "foodie," I'm not into food-related shows or celebrity chefs. For some reason, Anthony Bourdain caught a bit more of my attention than his peers before his death. There was just something about him.

When he intentionally ended this life, I became intrigued. Not in a morbid way. I just hoped to get a better understanding of what it is I had sensed and why he did what he did. So, I picked up Kitchen Confidential to see if I was right.

I'm glad I did! This was an enjoyable and insightful read. Eating at a busy urban restaurant will never be the same for me again...wow! I'd heard it was heavy on drugs and alcohol and high on stress, but Anthony opened my eyes wider. This is definitely not a habitat I would survive in...and, honestly, I have a difficult time understanding those who not only do, but who thrive in it.

Turns out I was right about Anthony. He was a sweet and sensitive man underneath his surly exterior — and, I can understand how the world was finally just too much for him.

Looking forward to reading Into the Weeds by Tom Vitale, Anthony's long-time director and producer.

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