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196books's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Child abuse, Misogyny, Racism, Rape, Sexism, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Xenophobia, Police brutality, and Abortion
Minor: Slavery and Colonisation
cryptofauna's review against another edition
2.75
i think my main problem is that it doesn't feel like a book. it obviously says essays on the front, and they were essays for sure, but it didn't feel coherent enough to be united as a book or under the title bad feminist. the essays themselves were pretty good, i liked some more than others, but together it felt kind of endless and rambly, especially because it seemed like most of them weren't actually about feminism.
some of it was interesting but i was actively skipping essays towards the end bc i was just over it.
feminism is ovb intersectional, and i value all the stuff she was talking about independently, but it didn't feel connected. it really felt like gay had a lot of essays on her blog that she liked, and wanted to somehow fit into a book, so she wrote an essay for the beginning and at the end to establish the bad feminist thing
like i said, i agreed with her on most things, mostly the main points, (racisms is bad, depictions of minority groups in media, the big important stuff) rather than her thoughts on trigger warnings which i didn't 100% agree on, as well as other non-important ones that i kind of don't remember specifics of (because i was so desperate to finish this book that could not hold my attention whatsoever)
i appreciated a book that gave more insights and opinions on these topics that makes you think harder about intersectionality (especially the black experience which ovb i don't know as well), but while she had opinions that could be divisive if you're evil, it felt a little bit like preaching to the choir sometimes, and she spent a lot of time covering her ass. every time she would make a new statement or opinion, i felt like she would say something along the lines of "what im not saying is that men are evil and should die" which like. yes? i don't honestly know for sure what my criticism here is but it felt weird and out of place that she spent so much time defending parts of her opinions that didn't really require it. if you're reading the book, you're probably not sitting there being like "wow she clearly thinks black men should stop making movies!". this is hyperbolic and maybe it didn't happen as much as im saying it did, but it was enough to notice when it happened repeatedly and something about it was irritating to me.
overall, i liked her writing style and her thoughts if i was just reading her essays as standalone pieces of writing, but all together i found it fairly boring as much as i tried to love and be strongly affected by it. also, i did not know like any of the media she was reviewing which isn't her fault, but also feels sort of necessary to understand the actual depth of the writing.
sorry roxane gay i had high hopes this one just isn't for me. i may seek out her blog/essays to read more of her writing in its natural habitat, because she really is a talented writer with a lot of in depth thoughts that she explains fairly well, it just became SO long winded and tiring reading them one after another. you cannot understand the relief i felt when i was done with this.
Moderate: Hate crime, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Slavery, and Police brutality
vaykay's review against another edition
3.5
That said, I want to read more of Gay's more recent work to see how her voice and ideas have grown and changed in the last 10 years.
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Confinement, Cursing, Death, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Gun violence, Hate crime, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Slavery, Toxic relationship, Violence, Xenophobia, Police brutality, Medical content, Murder, Pregnancy, Outing, Sexual harassment, and Dysphoria
Moderate: Homophobia and Abortion
Minor: Ableism, Drug abuse, Drug use, Genocide, Islamophobia, and Religious bigotry
florizona's review against another edition
2.25
Graphic: Bullying, Racial slurs, and Rape
Minor: Body shaming, Fatphobia, Hate crime, Mental illness, Misogyny, Racism, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Slavery, Police brutality, Mass/school shootings, Abortion, Murder, Pregnancy, and Outing
luce98's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Racism and Sexism
Moderate: Misogyny, Rape, Sexual violence, Slavery, Violence, and Abortion
leweylibrary's review against another edition
3.75
It is fascinating thinking about how these essays were written almost ten years ago and so many of the issues they deal with are still just as prevalent now. And not in a fun way, in a depressing way.
Graphic: Fatphobia, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Slavery, Police brutality, Abortion, and Murder
Moderate: Eating disorder and Toxic relationship
ginimeh's review against another edition
2.5
There were a lot of points where I thought "if I read this as a teen back when it was published I'd be able to take so much from it" and some thoughts and sentences are a welcomed gift for the next arguments I'll have with sexists or racists but further than that it didn't give me much. The only thing I really take away from it is that 2014 was still a year when "being feminist" meant to be a woman, to only talk about two genders, to mix up liking a specific color and shaving your legs is the same as supporting being a bad feminist. Honestly the last chapter accomplished to ruin the book for me. 2014 is almost a decade ago but if you write a book about feminism (no matter if it's about your perspective or the lense of media and society) I think one should look at the big scope of privilege and not only brush them while talking about two main points or axes of intersectionality. But maybe I'm putting to much responsibility on the author and thereby proof her point that we expect a lot from feminism.
Also I read it in German and the translation were horribly stiff sometimes.
Moderate: Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Hate crime, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Slavery, Violence, Police brutality, Mass/school shootings, Murder, Cultural appropriation, and Sexual harassment
schnanko's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Death, Fatphobia, Gun violence, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Slavery, Violence, Police brutality, Abortion, and Sexual harassment
lubarbara's review against another edition
3.0
Sin embargo, hay experiencias universales que vivimos todas las mujeres y se encuentran muy bien retratadas. La invitación a cuestionarnos, pero a ser más pacientes y amorosas con nosotras mismas es muy clara y necesaria.
Graphic: Misogyny, Racial slurs, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, and Slavery
Moderate: Child death, Hate crime, and Murder
maggieparedesauthor's review against another edition
3.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Bullying, Child death, Domestic abuse, Gun violence, Hate crime, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Slavery, Violence, Police brutality, Abortion, Cultural appropriation, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail