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Estou feliz que minha mãe morreu by Jennette McCurdy

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What a refreshingly honest book. This is probably one of the best memoirs I have ever read. No punches were held. The writing is fantastic and considering a lot of the shocking content that is revealed the book remains witty and hopeful for the future. 

Jennette talks about the abuse she suffered and how she became the main bread winner for the whole family, when she is coerced by her mother to become a child actress. As a result of this she is also encouraged by her own mother to develop an eating disorder to help her look smaller, so she can look like a child for as long as possible. And that is not even the half of the ordeals her mother puts her through. 

Jennette loves her mother and does everything she can to make her mother happy, to the point that she does not allow herself to be happy and live the life she wants for herself. 

I never felt like Jennette was looking for sympathy when reading this book. This is a book about overcoming the abuse she suffered from her mother and coming out the other side and finally being able to live the life she wants without any interference or judgement. I think she is so brave to have written this. We tend to put our mothers on a pedestal, even though they are only human and make mistakes like the rest of us. She makes no excuses for her mother and I found it refreshing. 

Some issues at Nickelodeon are also discussed, but they are by no means the main focus of the book. 

This is an emotional read, but truly worth it. I would highly recommend the audiobook which is narrated by the author.


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This was an incredible memoir. It details what Jennette dealt with as a child actor and her complicated relationship with her mom, as well as her struggles with mental illness. 

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Amending my 4 star review to 2.5 stars because I didn't actually like this book that much but everyone else loved it so much I felt like I needed to like it more than I did.

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A great memoir, and Jennette McCurdy is a fantastic author. The only reason it's not a perfect score is entirely on me: I engaged too empathetically, even in the parts I genuinely found funny. I read a passage, get horrified and/or sad, read it again and go "oh yeah that was really clever and hilarious! I probably shouldn't be crying right now".

In short, it's a rating on my personal experience reading rather than the book itself; should probably revisit in the future when I'm at  a different place in life.

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