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Estou feliz que minha mãe morreu by Jennette McCurdy

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CW: child abuse, eating disorder, emotional abuse, alcoholism, death of parent.

i don’t know how to rate a book like this. i don’t think you can love or hate a book about someone’s trama; it’s someone’s life and it’s their story. it’s the first book i’ve finished in three days since before summer started which makes me happy as i’ve been in the mother of all reading slumps. i don’t know how to feel about this book, honestly some of it was uncomfortable to read. the writing style at times bothered me. though i felt like the scenes really helped one understand what she went through as a child, but it just felt weird to read them and it felt like a <i>book </i> book. do you get what i mean? maybe autobiographies are just not my cup of tea.

seeing everything jeanette went through and reading it chronologically made me so happy for her recovery and that she was finally able to put herself first instead of doing the icarly reboot. when i picked this book up I had no idea about her background, no idea about her mom or anything about her story other than her being sam puckett from the tv show I watched when I was a kid.  i wish i had known what it was about and there was a content warning beforehand. 

overall i’m happy that’s she’s in recovery.

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Jennette McCurdy details her complicated, painful relationship with her mother (including her tendency towards emotional abuse and encouragement of eating disorders) and her journey towards healing from that fraught relationship after her mother's death.

As a review in The Atlantic pointed out, McCurdy has a knack for capturing her childhood thoughts and feelings. She shares detailed stories of her mother's abuse through the lens of her childhood self, allowing the audience to simultaneously clock her mom's concerning behavior and assess the child-like mental gymnastics that McCurdy went through to justify it. That skill, combined with McCurdy's dedication to exhaustively detailing her eating disorder recovery, pushes this memoir to the next level.

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This book is just....
Its a tough listen, but also very inspiring to hear someone decide to break the cycle of trauma and heal. 

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This was so insightful and really interesting. Def recommend the audiobook, Jennette does such a good voice performance. You can really appreciate and recognise how much work and introspection she's gone through, reflecting on her life from her earliest memories til adulthood. She really disillusions her life and the glamour of the industry. It was really well written as well, you can really tell she put her all into this book. I feel like I have a better understanding on how narcissism and emotional abuse can manifest, based on her experiences. I truly hope she's doing well and continues growing and recovering. There's some v harrowing / triggering experiences described in this book w detail, so tw for those. 

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I don't really have words for how profoundly this book affected me. I grew up watching iCarly and I was a fan of Jennette's music when she was pursuing that side of her career, and the entire time, I had no idea of the torture she was going through at the hands of her mother and Nickelodeon. Jennette is an amazing writer and expresses the complexity of having an abusive parent so well. Trying to grow up while abuse is all around you on top of being famous when it wasn't her choice read like a living hell, and I really felt for her. I still feel for her. I'm glad that she's healthy and doing okay now, I know that writing this must've been a cathartic and healing experience and that it will be cathartic and healing for others who read it.

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