Reviews tagging 'Physical abuse'

Mädchen, Frau etc. by Bernardine Evaristo

70 reviews

tulio_can_read's review against another edition

4.75

challenging emotional reflective medium-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Complicated

Loveable characters: Complicated

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault

leesoko's review against another edition

5.0

challenging dark informative reflective sad tense slow-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Yes

Loveable characters: Yes

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: No

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Miscarriage, Misogyny, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Slavery, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Xenophobia, Pregnancy, Sexual harassment, Colonisation, Classism

Moderate: Addiction, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Genocide, Hate crime, Homophobia, Infertility, Infidelity, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Police brutality, Abortion, Death of parent, Alcohol

Minor: Alcoholism, Biphobia, Cancer, Cursing, Deadnaming, Racial slurs, Blood, Dementia, Mass/school shootings, Car accident, Murder, Lesbophobia, Abandonment

moonienoire's review against another edition

2.25

emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Complicated

Loveable characters: Complicated

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Hate crime, Infertility, Infidelity, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexism, Slavery, Suicidal thoughts, Transphobia, Xenophobia, Islamophobia, Pregnancy, Lesbophobia, Colonisation, Dysphoria, Classism

Moderate: Biphobia, Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Deadnaming, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Homophobia, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Abandonment, Alcohol, Sexual harassment

elizzabethanne's review against another edition

5.0

challenging reflective medium-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Yes

Loveable characters: Complicated

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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I’ll write down more thoughts later because I need to sit with this one for a bit but WOW!!! I really can’t put into words right now just how much I loved this book. The writing, the brilliant character studies, the exploration of nuanced topics over multiple generations… It reminded me of the magic I felt when discovering great playwrights in my school years and being awed by another persons ability to understand the fundamental truths of being human.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Ableism, Addiction, Alcoholism, Biphobia, Body shaming, Child abuse, Child death, Cursing, Deadnaming, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Infertility, Mental illness, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Slavery, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Police brutality, Grief, Religious bigotry, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Lesbophobia, Cultural appropriation, Toxic friendship, Abandonment, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, Colonisation, War, Classism

jamie_el's review against another edition

4.75

emotional funny hopeful lighthearted reflective relaxing medium-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Yes

Loveable characters: Yes

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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I thoroughly enjoyed every second of this book. All of the characters feel very realistic, with traits that are both admirable, and flaws that make them feel human. Although the book tackles topics of race, ethnicity, nationality, and how the three play into each other; of gender, sexuality, poverty and ageing; it never feels like a mouthpiece through which the author is trying to push their point of view. It simply feels like an account of different people living their lives and existing and how the politics of life affects them. My only criticism, which is why I didn't give it 5 stars, is that I feel like some stories never concluded. Although the ending wrapped up certain aspects of the book, there were other stories that I hoped would resolve and never did. Whilst I understand that that is just how life sometimes is, I didn't quite feel fully satisfied when the book ended, which is a bit of a shame.

I listened to the audiobook rather than read the book, which I would highly recommend as I think the narrator did wonderfully at making the characters feel alive.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Emotional abuse, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Alcohol, Classism

A lot of the triggers are things that the characters have experienced in the book and are described very sensitively. They have a place within the context of the book.

victoriaaurora's review against another edition

4.0

challenging emotional funny inspiring reflective sad fast-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Complicated

Loveable characters: Complicated

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: No

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Confinement, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Racism

Moderate: Bullying, Homophobia, Physical abuse, Transphobia, Abandonment, Colonisation, Classism

peggy_racham's review against another edition

4.0

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Multiple prespectives conecting into one story.
My only problem was that it drags on just a little in the middle.
Overall very touching and well written.

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Biphobia, Body horror, Body shaming, Bullying, Cancer, Child abuse, Child death, Confinement, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Genocide, Gore, Gun violence, Hate crime, Homophobia, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Slavery, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Blood, Police brutality, Medical content, Grief, Stalking, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Murder, Pregnancy, Toxic friendship, Abandonment, Alcohol, Colonisation, Dysphoria, War, Classism

amylangdown_'s review against another edition

5.0

challenging emotional hopeful reflective relaxing slow-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Complicated

Loveable characters: Yes

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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This book is beautifully complex and yet somehow simple at the same time. The way the book follows different characters through their lives and shows how they all link up is so very clever. The characters were so real and tangible and their experiences so different and yet so universal. I really enjoyed the way the book was split up into chapters and then into characters.

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Child death, Cursing, Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Violence, Xenophobia, Grief, Suicide attempt, Lesbophobia, Toxic friendship, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, Dysphoria, Classism

Minor: Infidelity, Death of parent, Pregnancy

pweav's review against another edition

4.5

emotional reflective medium-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Complicated

Loveable characters: Yes

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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I loved this book. Very good character read about many different people - I like how mundane it was while still being very interesting. Felt like a good chat with a friend where you talk about people you knew well once & their families.

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Toxic relationship

bites_of_books's review against another edition

5.0

challenging dark emotional mysterious reflective sad tense medium-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Yes

Loveable characters: Complicated

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

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I loved this book. I thoroughly enjoy a book when it makes me think and pushes me to put it all together. Here we follow the stories of multiple Black women living in the UK, some from birth to their later years. It is told in a very peculiar style, which for me called back the way we remember stories from long ago and/or the way we recall our own memories, with only certain parts standing out in our memory while others are very vague. 

This book is full of really difficult topics, from abuse, abandonment, racism, bigotry, etc., and it is also full of a lot of heart and love between women. I loved the inclusion of trans and lesbian characters since they were the main characters in their respective stories. 

I'd recommend this book if you like multigenerational stories, books where you have to do the work and piece the story together, and if you like diverse books full of conversations surrounding various aspects of feminism. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Deadnaming, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Infertility, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Grief, Pregnancy, Lesbophobia, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Sexual harassment