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lily1304's review against another edition
emotional
funny
reflective
4.0
Samantha Irby never disappoints. It's so funny to read this though (written before she started dating her now-wife) and be like, "girl, PLEASE, think about it! men are not for you!!"
Graphic: Cursing, Sexual content, Fatphobia, Infidelity, and Death of parent
Lots of uncomfortably detailed descriptions of feces because she talks nonstop about her Crohn's Diseaseskudiklier's review against another edition
funny
lighthearted
reflective
fast-paced
3.25
So, at first I liked this book a lot. I found the essays funny, relatable, and very honest. I like their variety, I like the ones that are basically list poems, etc.
But I liked it less and less the longer it went on. A lot of the humor felt repetitive--like, I can only read so much about making fun of the all the men she's been with before I get tired of it. By the end I was pretty uninterested and just waiting for it to be over.
I did read the first edition, and she re-ordered the essays for the later editions. Maybe the new order would have kept my interest more. But idk, I just felt like some of the essays were doing/saying the same things as previous ones, and it wasn't funny enough for that to be worth it.
Also there were some things that have not aged well--lots of fatphobia and internalized fatphobia, as well as internalized sexism. Also some things about the environment that I don't feel like she would say ten years later--at least, I hope not.
Anyway I'm giving this four stars because I did like it for a while, and I'm trying not to let my "meh" feelings at the end change my whole thoughts on the book. I don't think I'd recommend it, but maybe I'd try reading some of her later books.
Update: I changed this to 3.25 stars. I was trying to not let the parts I didn't like affect my rating too much, but the more time passes the less I think I'd recommend this. I did like a couple essays and I didn't hate this book or anything, but I no longer think I'd try reading some of her later books even. Just not for me.
But I liked it less and less the longer it went on. A lot of the humor felt repetitive--like, I can only read so much about making fun of the all the men she's been with before I get tired of it. By the end I was pretty uninterested and just waiting for it to be over.
I did read the first edition, and she re-ordered the essays for the later editions. Maybe the new order would have kept my interest more. But idk, I just felt like some of the essays were doing/saying the same things as previous ones, and it wasn't funny enough for that to be worth it.
Also there were some things that have not aged well--lots of fatphobia and internalized fatphobia, as well as internalized sexism. Also some things about the environment that I don't feel like she would say ten years later--at least, I hope not.
Anyway I'm giving this four stars because I did like it for a while, and I'm trying not to let my "meh" feelings at the end change my whole thoughts on the book. I don't think I'd recommend it, but maybe I'd try reading some of her later books.
Update: I changed this to 3.25 stars. I was trying to not let the parts I didn't like affect my rating too much, but the more time passes the less I think I'd recommend this. I did like a couple essays and I didn't hate this book or anything, but I no longer think I'd try reading some of her later books even. Just not for me.
Graphic: Body shaming, Chronic illness, Death of parent, Sexism, Fatphobia, Child abuse, Cursing, and Excrement
Moderate: Classism, Drug use, Pregnancy, Alcohol, Body horror, Car accident, Eating disorder, Racism, Self harm, Medical content, Ableism, Blood, Sexual content, Vomit, Injury/Injury detail, Mental illness, and Suicide attempt
Minor: Alcoholism, Cancer, Drug abuse, Infertility, Infidelity, Sexual harassment, Suicidal thoughts, Bullying, and Violence
graphic: parentification, diet culture, internalized fatphobia, internalized sexism
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