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Real Men Knit by Kwana Jackson

3 reviews

teacupsandfirereads's review

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hopeful lighthearted sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

A friend read this book last year and enjoyed it, so I thought I'd give it a read. I had very little interest in this book from the beginning. Maybe I just wasn't in the mood for it? What got to me was I think it would have been better in first person, rather than third person narrative. It is down as romance, and definitely a slow burn. So much so that I would say the majority of it was not romance at all, and only slightly started to pick up within the last 100 pages or so and then ended abruptly. The first part really focuses on grief of losing a loved one. For me, it was just an okay book, if that. Looking back, I wished I'd DNF'd because there are tons of other books that I would be like to be reading over this one. Luckily it was a fairly quick read and a library book at that. So i only wasted a short amount of time on it. I know this sounds harsh, but it is not necessarily a reflection of the book itself. I do know that others will enjoy this one much more than I do, but it is not personally one I will be openly recommending.

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fromjuliereads's review against another edition

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funny hopeful lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25

I really loved the concept of this book! Men knitting? Hell yes! And I love that there was a family dynamic with the brothers that seemed completely right! 
I think there were just some pieces that didn't work for me. Mainly, I had a hard time grasping who the characters were. In the beginning of the book, you're introduced to them and are told about them based on how they see each other and the brothers. And that's fine. It was more tell than show, but I can live with that. Where it got confusing was when most od the characters started to do things that were seemingly out of character from how we had been introduced to them... it kept throwing me off? The only ones who stayed true to their character throughout were Lucas, Noah, and Val - side characters. Jesse and Kerry were kind of all over the place and I have no idea what happened with Damian because there was no explanation at all for the difference in behaviour or how everyone viewed him and acted around him.

Overall though, it was a cute quick read!

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llamareads's review

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slow-paced
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

I’ve read books by this author before and enjoyed them and this blurb sounded right up my alley. Four hot adopted brothers? A knitting shop in Harlem? Yes, please! Unfortunately, while those parts lived up to my expectations, some of the book didn’t.

Jesse is the youngest of four brothers – most of them not biologically related – adopted by Mama Joy. Kerry’s been a fixture of Mama Joy’s knitting shop for years, so while Jesse and Kerry were never really friends, they’ve known each other forever. After Mama Joy’s death, Kerry expects that the brothers will close down the shop. No one expects Jesse to step up and insist on running the store, perhaps not even Jesse himself – and certainly no one expects Kerry to volunteer to show him the ropes. Kerry’s always had a thing for Jesse, but even she realizes that getting involved with the neighborhood playboy is a bad idea.

There was a lot I liked about the book, though I think at times it read more like women’s fiction than romance. I liked the realistic relationships between the brothers. They’re each dealing with Mama Joy’s death in their own ways, and they each interact with each other and Kerry as individuals. I loved the relationship between Kerry and her best friend Val, and I liked Kerry’s love for both her job at the community center and her work at the knitting shop. I’m a sucker for sweet caregivers, and that’s definitely Kerry to a T.

On the opposite end of the spectrum, a lot of pages are spent establishing Jesse as an aimless playboy and I never felt like he had the time to overcome that stereotype. Even with the knitting shop, besides a Pinterest board and some painting, it felt like most of the work was done by Kerry (with her social media skills). While I love a good slow burn romance, the relationship between Jesse and Kerry seemed to get to the “I want them but this is a bad idea” stage and then stalled. Jesse couldn’t seem to decide whether he wanted to treat Kerry as a bratty little sister, someone he was romantically interested in, or his maid. He started making some progress towards the end of the book, but then the book ended abruptly right after the big gesture.

What I disliked the most though was that there’s a definite “not like other girls” thread going through the story. It’s especially noticeable in regards to Jesse’s latest flame, Erika, who’s pilloried for everything from drinking too much to being too forward to having nail art that’s not conducive to knitting. On a personal pet peeve level, there’s a couple of mentions of Kerry’s vibrator (she specifically packs it when she moves in to Mama Joy’s place, and it’s even mentioned what drawer she hides it in). Look, it’s like Chekhov’s gun – if you’re going to mention it that many times, I expect to see it in action at some point!

Overall, while there were high points, the hero (and by extension the romance) just didn’t work for me. 2.5 stars, rounded up to 3.

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