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swimmingwolf59's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
tense
medium-paced
4.0
I think this is a really good book on the challenges of family and motherhood, and a really interesting look at a family escaping Vietnam during the war. The art is beautiful and haunting. But I definitely should've read the content warnings on this one lol. While I appreciate that pregnancy and childbirth and motherhood isn't like glorified in this, I also could've done without the 30 pages of graphic pregnancy at the beginning.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Pregnancy and Infidelity
Moderate: Violence
Minor: Miscarriage
wanderlust_romance's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
informative
reflective
fast-paced
5.0
What an amazing and moving memoir. Everything from the artwork to the deeply personal storytelling was engaging, thoughtful, and emotional. The art is a layering of ink and woodcut style drawings with undercurrents of brown and orange watercolors. It is a stark but not monochromatic depiction of scenes that aligns very well with the story being told. At its heart, The Best We Could Do is a story of parental and family relationships. The narrative’s opening scene depicting the authors traumatic birthing experience sets the tone for the rest of the book: this is not going to be a comfortable read. And indeed it is challenging. The birth scene brings the narrative full circle at the end, with deeply personal and resonating reflections by Bui on being a parent. The midsection of the memoir goes into depth on Bui’s parent’s experiences growing up in French colonial Vietnam and the ensuing geopolitical conflicts that ensued. Relaying the challenges experienced by their parents adds insight into their approach to parenting in the midst of the conflict and afterwards in their life as immigrants in the US. Through the gathering of this insight, it made me pause to consider how much one really knows their parents. Do I know who my parents are as people, in a vein outside of their relationship to me as a caretaker? Is it possible to separate what I know of them as parents to understand who they are in an independent context? While not explicitly noted in the text, these are also questions that Bui considers with depth in gathering their parents deeply personal and fraught histories. With this renewed insight into the Bui family’s history, Thi Bui reflects on their own journey as a parent. And at the end of such a deeply moving story, reminds readers of the refrain that many parents recognize in the challenges to raise humans. I did the best I could do.
Content Warnings
Graphic: War
Moderate: Medical content, Xenophobia, Abandonment, Medical trauma, Miscarriage, Pregnancy, and Violence
Minor: Child death, Physical abuse, and Infidelity
xoxo_biz's review against another edition
informative
inspiring
reflective
sad
tense
fast-paced
4.75
drraytay's review against another edition
informative
reflective
sad
fast-paced
4.0
Content Warnings
Moderate: Violence, Pregnancy, Domestic abuse, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Emotional abuse, Medical trauma, Infidelity, Death, Child death, Rape, Abandonment, War, Colonisation, and Miscarriage
Minor: Fire/Fire injury
laurenj1398's review against another edition
challenging
dark
sad
tense
fast-paced
5.0
This was my first foray into graphic novels and it has utterly blown me away. The amount of emotion portrayed in this novel is unparalleled. The writing coupled with the imagery really makes you feel the intensity of the Vietnam War and the depth of emotions of each family member.
I highly recommend this novel to anyone is looking for a graphic novel to read.
I highly recommend this novel to anyone is looking for a graphic novel to read.
verytwilly's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
informative
reflective
fast-paced
5.0
I appreciated the way the history and context is brought into the narrative so the reader more fully understands the story while also being educated about what happened.