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4.35 AVERAGE

challenging emotional inspiring sad tense fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

An AMAZING read. This book gives a perspective that as an American is definitely not something we learn or probably even think about enough. Very well written, the generational trauma as well as the family's resiliency is portrayed so well. I listened to the audiobook and couldn't hit pause. It is a very heavy read however, if you pick up this book you will follow the family through horrors of war and famine and violence, but it is obvious the author poured her soul into this book to give the most unfiltered voice to what the Vietnamese people have been through.

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challenging dark emotional informative reflective sad tense medium-paced
emotional sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

It is hard to put into words how vital works like this one are. The world has seen such horror that is constantly being buried even as it continues today. Authors like Nguyễn Phan Quế Mai keep the truth alive with courage and resilience for us and future generations to learn from. The faults of history should guide our actions in the present.

"For the millions of people, Vietnamese and non-Vietnamese, who lost their lives in the war. May our planet never see another armed conflict."

The writing is beautiful.
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weronikab01's review

4.75
emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I don’t know what to say
Or what to write
It is like a strange internal fight
I need to write, to feel
And this book, is
Itself an emotion


Struggle,
The primary feeling, That
I’m going through,
Struggle,
Is exactly the theme of this book
Now I wonder if I can say that?
Struggle of Tran family
Probably just another family,
In thousands of families in
Vietnam, that faced the war
Trans, that represent whole
Country to us , that went
Through the struggle, and
Fought the monster called war


Tran family had a
Matriarch, Diêu lan, who was
The victim of all the
Demons of war, was the
Tallest mountain that sang hope
Along all the struggles,
Then has hùòng, whose life in
Childhood to adolescence went
In questioning the aftermath
And the right there, of war
But only in her mind


There’s no another villain here,
The war, is the beast,
Is the antagonist , if
We put it so, monster
Leaves nothing for trans
Snatching absolutely everything
Now this might sound as a
War story to you, take my word
It’s a family saga,
Involving so much history
Of Vietnam , that you and I
And everyone who reads
This book, can’t help but
Go find the history on whole

There’s nothing new , I
Can offer to say about this book
That hasn’t been already said
So I’m writing my thoughts out
Certainly with many doubts
This piece won’t be any grand,
But I ought to try my hand.






challenging emotional hopeful reflective sad fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated
dark emotional inspiring sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Plot
Loveable characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: No