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Girl, Woman, Other by Bernardine Evaristo

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charley0796's review against another edition

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lighthearted reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? N/A
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

A collection of short stories about women and non binary individuals. The author does a great job of interweaving all the stories, so characters overlap and yet are entirely different. It explores themes of transgender, domestic violence, feminism and race in such a reflective way of just living. She makes the narrators more than the sum of their world roles and really showcases such a wide range of women - they’re never perfect and always human.
But, I never adjusted to the lack of full stops, I just couldn’t cope. As all the characters were mentioned in seemingly disjointed order, I also struggled to connect and found my interest waning towards the end until a plot line came full circle. 
So 3.75/5 it is from me.

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alexashabit's review against another edition

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reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25


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lucyhicks's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional funny hopeful informative medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

I really wanted to love this book and there was so much that was great about it. Each character’s story was poignant and striking, and I loved the way they were all intertwined. My problem was that I just couldn’t quite bring myself to care deeply enough about any of them. Maybe that’s part and parcel of having that many characters, but I found their stories less powerful because I wasn’t truly invested in them as people. This varied from person to person, and some characters evoked more emotion than others, but I wish there had been fewer characters and more plot overall. 

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secre's review against another edition

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informative reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

Part of my mediocre rating for this is down to the formatting and style, and I fully recognise that may be a me problem. Hence why it's a three star rating and not any lower, because the bones behind the stylistic choices are good. I just struggled to engage with them as well I perhaps could have.

My main issue is the narrative structure, where the over-arching narrative is told through a series of shorts, skipping between characters and almost always introducing new characters, many of whom have tenuous links to previously referenced ones. They weren't necessarily chronological, so you'd have to place yourself in time as well as place. Every single skip, I had to force myself to mind plot who this person was in relation to everyone else - or at least somebody else. Every single skip, I had to re-orientate myself and that was exhausting to read. There were so many characters and many of them introduced by different names depending on who was talking that keeping the mental mind map made it a tedious exercise. My second issue was the formatting choice. Almost like poetry, but not poetry. Lines of text with no capitalisation or punctuation. Maybe I'm just a conservative reader, but I struggled to engage.

Each of the twelve chapters takes on a different perspective, all showing a variety of women, mostly black and British but from a variety of backgrounds, as they find their place in the world. There's a complete range of characters here and I did find that Evaristo captured the different voices well. There were some odd choices like a mother wanting to caress her daughter's partners balls almost the first time she meets him, but I suppose there's all sorts out there. Evaristo captures different time periods and scenes; from the elderly farming couple to the distinctly promiscuous lesbian scene. The links between characters can be overt or tenuous, which can make it difficult to track where the link is though.

It's got good bones to it, but the use of so many inter-linked characters let it down for me. It would have been better had Evaristo focussed more closely on three or four of the characters, using the others within their chapters rather than set on their own. It needed more meat on the bones to really work for me and it couldn't do that when it was skipping between so many different elements, particularly when some of them were so loosely connected. There were some characters I actively connected with, others I didn't and others I found myself mildly grossed out by; I'll reference back to the balls reference earlier. All in all, an interesting piece, but not one for me. 

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ellxnmcgrxth's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Read in one night, it's very moreish

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faynebrio's review against another edition

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dark emotional medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
i did not like it </3 wish i read the tws beforehand but even so lots of the more difficult sections were tackled in a way that i also. didnt like

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bites_of_books's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional mysterious reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

I loved this book. I thoroughly enjoy a book when it makes me think and pushes me to put it all together. Here we follow the stories of multiple Black women living in the UK, some from birth to their later years. It is told in a very peculiar style, which for me called back the way we remember stories from long ago and/or the way we recall our own memories, with only certain parts standing out in our memory while others are very vague. 

This book is full of really difficult topics, from abuse, abandonment, racism, bigotry, etc., and it is also full of a lot of heart and love between women. I loved the inclusion of trans and lesbian characters since they were the main characters in their respective stories. 

I'd recommend this book if you like multigenerational stories, books where you have to do the work and piece the story together, and if you like diverse books full of conversations surrounding various aspects of feminism. 

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coco43cl's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional inspiring sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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ynaiita_5896's review

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emotional funny informative inspiring lighthearted reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

Evaristo takes 12 characters whose lives intertwine in some way or another and writes a book that is so unified, continued and connected. This book is so well written and the characters are so realistic that I wondered which part of them was real and which part fiction. The characters are lovable and those who have called them unlovable may have done so because they see themselves in these characters across all the emotions they have depicted.

Informative and reflective. This book has taught me so much about women and how resilient we are; how tragic our lives have been and continue to be but how we continue to rise each time. It is a reminder of how society has tried to define us for centuries, across generations and geographies, and how hard we try and succeed to take charge of the narrative.

What I love most about it is how diverse it is within the diversities. This isn't specific to cultural, but spans across the LGBTQ+ discourse. These conversations are so important and there's a lot of learning that is still needed. There's a lot of cancel culture happening due to lack of knowledge and this book has the pote tial and opportunity to fill the gap.

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brittcoxon's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Wow. A book that gives you a glimpse into so many lives. A unique look at the intersection of being LGBTQ and black. A complex set of stories, all interconnected, visiting friends and family, current times and historical. Some characters stories are harder to read than others, this book deals with some very difficult topics, ones that are sadly very familiar.
By the end of the book I felt I knew all our characters so well, their lives, influences and ambitions.

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