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“You Just Need to Lose Weight”: And 19 Other Myths About Fat People by Aubrey Gordon

19 reviews

hexedmaiden's review against another edition

informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

5.0

I loved this book. While I have come a long way in my life as a fat person and having been so a vast majority of my life, there was still so much in this book that I took away. I feel like this another book that I would say that everyone needs to read. It doesn't matter if you're fat, average, or skinny, everyone could learn something from this book. Because fatphobia doesn't just have an affect on fat people, fatphobia hurts everyone.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Eating disorder, Fatphobia, and Body shaming

Moderate: Medical trauma, Ableism, and Racism

Minor: Sexual assault, Transphobia, and Homophobia

chantplant's review against another edition

informative reflective slow-paced

4.75

The best book i’ve read on this topic so far. has a nice split of personal detail vs intellectual research and never got dry for me like in some other books on fatphobia. I also truly appreciate how Gordon inputs calls to action on how to actively challenge fatphobia within oneself and when witnessed externally. 
additionally, i like how she made it a point to say that having body image issues is not an excuse to be fatphobic to others. the quote “all of us have a responsibility to get support in a way that doesn’t threaten someone else’s dignity or healing” really stuck out to me - and called me out. i have definitely been guilty of this type of behavior in my past. and it needs to be spoken about more: body dysmorphia is a horrible thing to endure yet the things it can sometimes make us say or think about fat people is also deeply damaging and dehumanizing. even fat people themselves can be fatphobic to those larger than them and it is still just as hurtful. 
i’m very excited for Gordon’s film to release to the public - her thought processes and way of breaking down ideas is easy to digest and immersive all in one. 
highly recommend this book to people of all body types looking to erase stigmas they may not even know they upheld. 

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Homophobia, Misogyny, Body shaming, Fatphobia, and Racism

amberinpieces's review against another edition

informative medium-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming and Fatphobia

Moderate: Eating disorder and Dysphoria

Minor: Colonisation, Ableism, Slavery, Racism, Lesbophobia, Islamophobia, Transphobia, Classism, and Homophobia

sophiestasyna's review against another edition

challenging informative reflective medium-paced

4.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Eating disorder, Fatphobia, and Body shaming

Moderate: Ableism, Medical trauma, and Racism

Minor: Homophobia and Transphobia

msgslibrary's review against another edition

hopeful informative reflective fast-paced

5.0

An essential entry text for the current state of fat liberation philosophy. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Medical trauma, Pandemic/Epidemic, Hate crime, Emotional abuse, Sexual violence, Police brutality, Fatphobia, Dysphoria, Eating disorder, Sexual harassment, Physical abuse, Sexism, and Sexual assault

Moderate: Mental illness, Ableism, Homophobia, Suicidal thoughts, Grief, Racism, Chronic illness, Colonisation, Forced institutionalization, Classism, Misogyny, Transphobia, Genocide, Xenophobia, Pedophilia, Sexual content, Terminal illness, and Violence

pacifickat's review against another edition

challenging informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.25

This was a really excellent, nuanced, and heartfelt read that challenged me to examine some common misconceptions that are often assumed to be true about fat people, and interrogate my own shifting implicit and explicit biases. 

Aubrey does a good job of calling out systems of oppression, as well as individual complicities and microagressions that harm marginalized communities. She challenges who and what we center in society, and asks the reader to consider their reactions to being at times decentered. 

What do we think of, or assume, when we think about fat people? What feelings does the word "fat" emotionally conjure in us? What about seeing a fat person? Ought we to interrogate those assumptions and feelings, granting dignity and respect to every human? How often do we actually listen to fat people and believe them at face value, or center their voices about their own bodies and experiences? 

This will be a book I revisit again, especially Myth 16, 19, and 20. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Ableism, Eating disorder, Body shaming, Fatphobia, Bullying, Gaslighting, and Medical content

Moderate: Homophobia, Transphobia, and Racism

Minor: Chronic illness, Sexual assault, Child abuse, and Rape

qteabeans's review against another edition

challenging informative fast-paced

4.0

A good primer on anti-fatness and weightism. Gordon cites her sources and ties in other people's work and voices. Clear voice and consistency of messaging. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Fatphobia and Body shaming

Moderate: Racism, Homophobia, Classism, Death, Chronic illness, Xenophobia, Sexual assault, Misogyny, Bullying, Eating disorder, Hate crime, Medical trauma, Gaslighting, Transphobia, Sexual harassment, Ableism, and Acephobia/Arophobia

caitlynlargent's review against another edition

informative reflective medium-paced

3.75

Very informative, well researched, and well written. A little less than 4 stars because I felt that a lot of the information was recycled during the different “myths”. While there is bound to be some connection, at times I felt like I had hit rewind on accident because I was hearing the same things. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder, and Fatphobia

Moderate: Medical trauma, Racism, Sexism, and Misogyny

Minor: Sexual violence, Homophobia, and Transphobia

toriffic's review against another edition

informative medium-paced

5.0

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Ableism, Fatphobia, Hate crime, and Eating disorder

Minor: Deportation, Dysphoria, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Misogyny, Racism, Emotional abuse, Police brutality, Chronic illness, Medical content, Islamophobia, Lesbophobia, Murder, Cultural appropriation, and Homophobia

redefiningrachel's review against another edition

challenging emotional informative medium-paced

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Fatphobia, Medical trauma, Racism, and Medical content

Moderate: Homophobia, Gaslighting, Death, Transphobia, Mental illness, Xenophobia, Rape, Sexual assault, Classism, Self harm, Chronic illness, Sexual violence, and Sexual harassment

Minor: Cursing and Addiction