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Moderate: Car accident
Minor: Alcohol
Graphic: Death of parent
Moderate: Grief, Car accident, Alcohol
Minor: Infidelity, Blood, Vomit
Moderate: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Toxic relationship, Car accident, Death of parent, Alcohol
Minor: Cursing, Infidelity, Sexism, Vomit, Injury/Injury detail
Graphic: Body shaming, Death, Eating disorder, Car accident, Death of parent
Moderate: Bullying, Cursing, Fatphobia, Blood, Grief, Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Terminal illness, Violence, Vomit, Alcohol
Were they problematic? OF COURSE THEY WERE YOU KNOW THIS.
Were they predictable? YES, DUH.
Were they everything wannabe hopeless romantic (pre)teen wanted and needed before life smacked them so hard in their 20’s and 30’s that they miss ye olden days when things were simpler and you had to decide on either using the internet or using the landline? YES THIS IS WHY I AM THE WAY I AM.
The Love Haters is that ridiculous romcom in a book. It’s that ooey gooey cinnamon roll that might not be good for your cholesterol but will heal your soul. It’s that reprieve from how hard life has been and wondering if it’s always going to be this hard. It is everything I have been needing.
Katie doesn’t want to lose her job so she fibs about knowing to swim so she can film a documentary on her coworker’s brother who is in the US Coast Guard and went viral for saving a celeb’s dog. Hutch is supposedly notoriously grumpy but he is just a low key type of guy who has always had to be responsible after experiencing tragedy so young. Katie also has to deal with her ex becoming a superstar musician and the hits her self esteem has taken because of said cheating ex and social media comments.
This book is gonna be divisive. There’s a lot of body talk and having a bad body image and honestly it’s a little (or a lot) triggering. But the point of The Love Haters isn’t our heroine hating her body and complaining about it. Nope. The whole point is that we should just embrace love. Love ourselves. Love others. Love love. Life is short. So heartbreakingly short. Why not spend it loving ourselves and each other?
I love Katherine Center and The Love Haters might be my top fave from her.
Thank you so much to St. Martins Press for the ARC and the opportunity to read this book.
Graphic: Body shaming, Death of parent
Moderate: Alcohol
Minor: Animal cruelty, Bullying
This is really a story about a woman learning to accept and love herself—especially her body. The body-positive message at the end genuinely warmed my heart. That said, there are some disordered eating references that aren’t warned for and might be tough for some readers. They felt a bit out of place at times and distracted from the bigger plot.
What really shined for me: the healing between two estranged brothers, the cozy found-family vibes, the goofy dog, and Katie’s relationship with her cousin (give me a whole book of just their convos, please). I laughed, cried, and smiled all the way through. Zero spice, but plenty of sweetness.
Did the “love haters” theme work for me? Not really. And the ending was a lot. But hey—we don’t read fiction for reality, right?
Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder
Moderate: Car accident, Death of parent, Alcohol
Minor: Terminal illness
Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Grief, Car accident, Death of parent, Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Alcohol
Minor: Self harm, Terminal illness
Graphic: Body shaming, Grief
Moderate: Alcoholism, Car accident, Alcohol
Minor: Suicidal thoughts, Vomit
And also, there is an even deeper romance, “Specifically: Katie and her body—in a kind of enemies-to-lovers trope,” as she mentions in the author’s note.
It was this romance, I loved the most.
I loved all these parts of chapter 12:
“I remembered an article about bullying that said onlookers often didn’t stand up for bullied kids for fear that they would become targets themselves.
…
I could choose to be that one other kid. For myself. I could stay with her, and help her up, and we could turn to watch the sunset, side by side. I could keep one arm around her, and we could watch the sky darken until the moonlight sparkled on the waves, and listen to the water lapping the dock, and be okay together. What if I showed up like that every time?
…
If you don’t reject the harsh things people say to you, then I guess, at some point, that means you accept them.”
It was this part of the book I loved most. And also her friendship with Hutch’s grandmother Rue (who was fun-loving and quirky in all the best ways). And her relationship with Hutch’s dog.
Katherine Center’s writing always makes me think she would be the best kind of friend in real life. I have heard her talk about her husband being a middle school teacher and some of his students read her books, so she keeps them clean. I could imagine parts of this book she is saying to all women, but maybe especially young ones, these truths about loving your body.
Hutch was a great book boyfriend for sure. I also love how Center finds unique careers to write about. He is a US Coast Guard rescue swimmer, and all the facts and information about these heroes was interesting.
“Isn’t that how it always is? The thing you’re afraid of is never the thing you should be.” Ch 14
“He’s a love hater.” “What does that mean?” “He’s all rules and no heart! He’s all action and no reaction! He’s all body and no soul.” Ch 3
“that feeling of suppressed hope you get when somebody else might think the thing you also keep wanting to think.” Ch 11
“It was about the deep, enduring comfort that comes from looking at your life for exactly what it is, and exactly how it’s unfolded—and really seeing it. The past can’t hurt you now like it did then. The story of your life is always full of mystery. You can unfold it on a table like a map, and study it, and understand it in new ways. It’s not different, but you are.” Epilogue
Thank you libro.fm for providing audiobooks to librarians. This one was fun to listen to! And also thank you to NetGalley and Macmillan Publishers for letting me read an advance copy!
Moderate: Terminal illness, Grief, Alcohol
Graphic: Eating disorder, Car accident, Dysphoria
Moderate: Cursing, Infidelity, Terminal illness, Vomit, Grief, Alcohol, Sexual harassment