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Incense and Sensibility by Sonali Dev

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sabrinaboyk's review against another edition

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emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0


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thewairimu's review

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adventurous emotional hopeful inspiring reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5


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angelfireeast24's review

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adventurous emotional funny fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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thaliareads's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

As always, Sonali Dev turned out another absolute delight. I absolutely loved the push and pull in Yash and India's relationship. They both clearly wanted a relationship with each other, but they cared so much about the other's happiness that things just never worked out. They have this instant love connection that grows into a beautiful friendship, despite their initial challenges getting along due to their history. 

I loved how despite their instant connection, things weren't instantly easy, and that they had to put in work to get themselves individually to a point where they could support a healthy relationship with each other. 

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aesantiago's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0


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harperhoney's review

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adventurous emotional hopeful reflective
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

3.25


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sultrytartreviews's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

I had a really hard time sticking with this book (but I did manage to make through to the end). It didn't flow like the previous in the series for me. Instead it felt boring and like the same issues were played over and over again without finding solutions to them. By the time we do get solutions, at the very end, they seemed so obvious and easy...why did it take us so long to get here, then? I wasn't a fan of the way Yash's anxiety and panic attacks were handled. And ultimately, I just didn't really believe the love story. This was technically a second chance trope, but both times are described as instalove (neither are tropes I usually enjoy) which didn't really make sense to me. And there wasn't a deeper dive into WHY this couple should be together other than their intense pull to one another.

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rbash2391's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful lighthearted reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

Incense and Sensibility takes the fake relationship trope and flips it on its head, according to author Sonali Dev. Instead of the main character's fake relationship being his actual love interest, or the developing love interest, he has always only been in love with one person and reconnects with her out of necessity. 

Yash (pronounced like "rush") is running for Governor of California. His platform is progressive and based on principles that most readers will likely agree with if they are reading this book. He is purported to be in it to serve the public and not as a politician seeking power and advancement. At one of his campaign speaking events, he is shot by an audience member, narrowly avoiding death, while his bodyguard is severely injured and goes into a coma for most of the remainder of the book. This causes him to have anxiety attacks that prevent him from doing more public appearances campaigning. To help him, his cast of sisters, all very much attentive and concerned in an oppressive way to Yash, bring him to their friend India, a yoga instructor, counselor/therapist, and Reiki practitioner. 

Turns out, Yash and India have known each other for ten years, although that is the last time they saw each other and had a heated, romantic moment. In the last ten years, however, Yash has been in a fake/PR relationship with a woman named Naina, who runs her own non-profit helping disadvantaged women around the globe. Yash and Naina are strictly "together" for the public's sake, but they have a hands-off, non-intimate relationship. Yash was drugged, sexually assaulted, and video footage was used to blackmail him in the past, so he has an aversion to physical intimacy to say the least. 

Yash wants to call off his relationship with Naina but she resists him, insisting that their false relationship helps their public images independently and it would be too close to the election to have a public breakup or admit to their lie. Even though the book covers the span of a few months, the "too close to the election" argument is used throughout the book and eventually Yash does end their relationship and admit during a public presser to having lied to the public. Turns out, that only hurts his lead slightly and he does end up winning. 

The book is mainly character driven. Not a lot happens after the first few chapters of action where Yash gets shot. The characters are likable. I think India had a hard time even admitting to herself the attraction and love she felt for Yash, so we didn't really see that through the narrative until the end when Yash admits his feelings publicly without revealing her identity. Both Yash and India feel safe only with each other, and the reader feels that too. India is like an emotional conduit for Yash; he's numb entirely until he can see her and then all of his feelings, good and bad, rush up. He's able to process them in her presence, however, and she's consented to helping him do that. We are always waiting intently for them to spend time together, and it's peaceful and relaxing when they do, even though the moment is actually tense in more ways than one. They have physical attraction but also this fraught history of not being honest with each other. Yash has other demons from his past to contend with that influence how he approaches his anxiety attacks during the campaign, and India is the one to help guide him through that. She does keep good boundaries as a professional, but she does this work for him because she cares about him and I liked that balance. 

Yash's family seemed to annoy him the entire book, and said some things that were hurtful and dismissive of his experience. His father especially was only focused on him winning the election, and all of their behavior was excused as the ulterior motives of wanting Yash to be governor so he could make good changes in the world. After he confesses his love for India to his parents, they (especially his mother) realize that for him to do the things he wants to do for the public, he has to correct the private issues that are holding him back. I liked the way his sisters and mother helped plan and usher in Yash's public "come clean" and sat with India while she watched him give the presser live, or so she thought. Until she finds out the presser had been taped 30 minutes prior, and the sweet but stinky pug Chutney who loves Yash is barking at the window and she realizes Yash is standing outside waiting for her. That was super romantic and made up for the slow burn of the book for me. 

Their announcement of their relationship, and Yash's lie, only did so much to hurt him in the polls and he ended up winning with a very close margin. The romantic stakes were very high throughout the book but that fizzled out once they chose each other. I think that is my main complaint, as I prefer a plot-driven story, rather than characters tugging back and forth until someone gives and then all the problems vanish once they do. 

Overall this book is vibes. We have the contrast between India's world which is close-knit, plush, colorful, and peaceful, and Yash's family's estate that is massive and shows us that he is from a legacy family. Despite their varied upbringing and lives, the families have similar values and are supportive of Yash and India even if it means him possibly losing the election. As long as they are living in truth, it's better than lying to get what you want.

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buttermellow's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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hngisreading's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional hopeful inspiring slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.5


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