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5.0

TRIGGER WARNING: This book does contain details of sexual assault and domestic violence.

Tarana Burke takes her life experiences and beautifully communicates them in a way that is not sugarcoated or timid. The bravery it takes for someone to recount not just one sexual assault experience but several is a bravery and burden that not many are equipped with or even have the desire for. Tarana’s experience is both exclusive and not. Unfortunately many young black girls and black women have had far too similar experiences to Tarana’s.

Tarana also speaks to the ground work she was doing in the black community prior to the #MeToo movement that blew up online. From the way she communicates it feels to me that she is a black activist first and for obvious reasons that could rub some people the wrong way.

Burke gives the reader a clear vision through her words of what shame and fear can be carried for survivors and all of the ways it could show up.

This book is hard and messy, but incredibly powerful. If you can handle the triggers or are able to skip over them I highly encourage you to read it. With her very New York attitude Burke reminded me as a mixed woman that I can’t give up fighting for young black girls and the goal should always be to empower them.

One of my favorite quotes in this book was: “If unkindness is indeed a serial killer, then my revelation is that I was my own murderer. I had taught myself to bend to my own unkindness first, so that I would be able to withstand the unkindness of others. I will not bend anymore.”

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5.0

Wow. Tarana Burke is an amazing human being and this book is important, heartfelt and inspiring. Not an easy read due to the topic but extremely well written and powerful and important. 

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Wow. Just WOW. This memoir by Tarana Burke, who is the founder of the #MeToo movement, has written a memoir that belongs on your shelf next to the works of Maya Angelou. This memoir reminded me of "I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings" in its raw honesty and fantastic writing. I listened to the audiobook, and Burke's narration is heartbreaking and a joy to listen to at the same time. Sections that I thought were particularly interesting were Burke's stories about her complicated and sometimes fraught relationship with her mother and the section where she describes her discovery of the work of Maya Angelou and how she fell in love with it and saw herself in it. I love that Tarana Burke never pretends to have been a perfect person and is committed to writing a real memoir with her highs, lows, wins and losses with honesty. If you have ever been interested in this woman and / or how the Me Too movement came to be, you should pick this up

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