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The Roughest Draft by Emily Wibberley, Austin Siegemund-Broka
9 reviews
gwenswoons's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Grief, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
angelfireeast24's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
2.5
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Mental illness, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Grief, and Abandonment
yvo_about_books's review
2.0
“It can be both. Fiction is fiction, and it's real. They're not opposites. They live within each other.”
WARNING: yet another unpopular opinion ahead!!
I've seen this book being compared to Beach Read (which I loved), so when I was browsing the list for a book about divorce for the POPSUGAR challenge I decided to give in and read The Roughest Draft. I always love a story with a bookish angle, so having two writers as main characters was a bonus... And I liked the sound of the blurb itself. I was fully expecting to have an excellent time reading this story, but unfortunately this wasn't the case. Instead, it made me so SO angry! I'm keeping this short because I don't want to turn this shorties review into a full blown rant, but there is no denying that The Roughest Draft was able to provoke some strong emotions, and none of them good. Things started out promising enough, but this changed rather quickly once I realized just how big of a gaslighting and self-absorbed piece of trash Katrina's fiancé Chris really is... Just ugh. Basically as soon as he forced her to co-write another book, told her it was ok to cheat if she needed to, and if she didn't do it he was going to look for another wife I was ready to throw my kindle against the wall and DNF. Katrina is just such a doormat! I couldn't stand Nathan either, and I felt neither character was fleshed out properly beyond a few basic descriptions thrown in and put on repeat. Yes, I get that Nathan drives a Porsche, and yes, I get that Katrina has bee-stung lips!! Now leave me alone and stop tormenting me with it. To make things worse, there is a lot of emotional cheating going on, and this made me like the characters even less (if possible). The fact that both are cheating at some point in time makes it even worse; maybe if Katrina had dumped Chris there and then when I said those things in the beginning and wrote the book for herself instead, things would have been different. As it is, I couldn't care less about what happened to them or if they would resolve their issues, and I started skimreading long before the halfway mark. And oh joy! There is even some active cheating and cringeworthy SMUT involved, driving another nail in the coffin of The Roughest Draft. All in all this turned out to be a rough read for me indeed...
Graphic: Infidelity, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
wildflowerleahg's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
This book is often compared to Emily’s Henry books and I would disagree. Both are written beautifully, don’t get me wrong. They are in two different camps.
The prose is absolutely astonishing. I was coloring while listening to this novel and I kept picking up my head to drink up all the words. It’s a very melancholy, so be prepared.
Also, please check triggers before going in. Can’t wait for this adorable writing COUPLE’s next book!
Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders, Toxic relationship, Infidelity, and Sexual content
Minor: Gaslighting and Death of parent
kfmcf's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Firstly, I had no desire for these two to get together. Yes Kat's fiance is awful, but...so is Kat. I did not enjoy her character and kind of just didn't care about what happened with her. Nathan was far more interesting as a character and the wiring for his chapters was a bit easier to digest. Kat's chapters had a bit more of a literary style, which is totally fine, but kept Kat at a bit of a distant.
I did enjoy learning about how the two wrote together and how their processes evolved. Harriet was a good vehicle for showing this evolution and I honestly wish she had more page time.
Lastly, the reason for their fallout was weak.
Graphic: Gaslighting
Moderate: Sexual content and Toxic relationship
lindseyhall44's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Toxic relationship, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Sexual content
bookedbyelizabeth's review against another edition
4.75
CW: infidelity, toxic relationship, gaslighting
I was excited to get this book from the library after reading some good reviews on bookstagram. I knew it was supposed to be a slow burn, but, even so, I found it a little too slow to start, which made me worry that my instincts were wrong and that I would find the book to be overhyped. But as I kept picking it up and reading more, I found it harder and harder to put down.
This book, as I suspected, was right up my alley. The longing between the two characters was EVERYTHING. The anguish of saying so little but feeling so much. The coded writing that hides nothing. The stolen glances, the slightest of touches, the blushing cheeks. I gobbled it all up and was hungry for more.
The way the two characters knew each other, body and soul, on such an intimate level was beautiful, and the dual POV was incredible to experience as a reader (yes, we get longing from both sides!). This is also the kind of book that makes me excited to get more into writing. I enjoyed the insight into the writing process, specifically the co-writing process that worked for the characters. Books about books and writing are some of my favorites.
The other criticism I have was wanting a little more regarding the characters’ mental health, though anxiety and depression were mentioned briefly. Overall though, this book was a great escape read and a solid romance. This may not be for you if you dislike slow burn romance and get annoyed by indirect communication, but if you too enjoy analyzing (overanalyzing?) actions and words and feelings plus a slow build up that pays off, then I’d say give this a shot!
“Writing is where our–where everyone’s–purest truths lie. On the page, thoughts and feelings can be expressed without interference, without ineloquences or fear or fumbling. There’s no room for turning back or losing your nerve. Only one thing remains–what you want to communicate.”
Moderate: Infidelity, Gaslighting, and Toxic relationship
goodbyerachel's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I loved the growth we saw from Kat throughout this process (although I wish Nathan had more development potential) and how the romance was such a subtle thread pulled through this story. I loved them together even when they were fighting and at their worst.
Also, how deep is a book by co-authors about co-authors veiling their feelings in their writing? It made me chuckle a bit but definitely added some good gravitas to the sections where Kat and Nathan reflect on their co-writing process and how their a best together. This will be great for readers who love books about books and writing (reminded me a bit of Beach Read in this writing process between two people).
Moderate: Gaslighting and Toxic relationship
Minor: Infidelity
tayahmarie's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Gaslighting and Infidelity