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5.0

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4.25


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4.5

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5.0

literally so fuxking good

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Tessa Miller writes unflinchingly as she details her struggles in her fight to live. The front few chapters were very very hard to read - she goes into detail about her illness (the pain, the terror, the not knowing), her close brush with death, and it just reminded me of how fragile and fleeting the good moments in life can be and not to take any of it for granted.

She talks about life with chronic illness and disability justice, and from there touches on everything we need to live a fulfilling, good and healthy life - politics, public health, societal attitudes towards disability, capitalism, gender, trauma, mental health, bodies, etc. Her training as a journalist shows because her voice is conversational but very clear and she could explain complicated medical concepts in very informative ways.

Highly highly recommend this book. I felt a rollercoaster of emotions. How she fell to the lowest points and brush with death, unpacking all that trauma and her renewed perspective (which sounds a bit like post traumatic growth) and gratitude reminded me of some of my own mental health journey and reminded me of the fragility and beauty of being alive.

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3.75

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What Doesn't Kill You is an insightful look into Crohn's Disease and how it affects all aspects of one's life: friends, romance, work, and more, given the recent pandemic. Miller was diagnosed with Crohn's at a young age, quickly followed by a nasty C. Diff infection (and another, oh, and an E. Coli infection, too). Her lowest moments are arguably being hospitalized for weeks on end, or perhaps it's when she flies to Paris with her boyfriend after he hits her. It could even be needing said boyfriend's poop for a fecal transplant, or perhaps begging her health insurance via Twitter during a pandemic for her medication. Miller's had it rough, but she's quick to remind us that disabled people all deal with various issues, some better, some worse.

Miller discusses her illness, abuse, addiction, navigating health insurance, and beyond, making this biography an extremely helpful resource. It's clear Miller was born to write and she succeeds greatly at it. At the end, inspiringly, are moments of joy and happiness as experienced by 38 other people with an invisible disability. This rounds out the book in a way that is enjoyable and hopeful.

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4.0