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A Girl Is a Half-Formed Thing by Eimear McBride
44 reviews
richthegreat's review against another edition
challenging
dark
sad
tense
slow-paced
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Okay, wow. Firstly the book is insanely well written, think stream of consciousness in Irish. It is quite a challenge and I think Eimear is clearly a gifted writer.
I love stream of consciousness writing, and for me this book did not disappoint, her writing is absolutely stunning, but you have to like that sort of thing. If you can't manage Woolf, or Joyce then don't bother here, as McBride is even more.
That is where my praise ends, this book is pure violence and I would have never read it had I known. There is so much rape, and hate and incest and trauma. The book is trauma, only read it if you are prepared. I have nothing to say that is positive about the plot it is essentially just trauma being passively and actively inflicted on the main character, by herself, others and the catholic church.
For me I can't separate the content from the stunning prose, I found the book so triggering and upsetting that no amount of excellent writing can make up for it. I cannot emphasise enough that you MUST be extremely careful if you undertake to read this book.
Personally if I never read another book about a person getting abused and then engaging in horrendous self hate I will be just fine. I know this stuff happens, and I understand the human capacity to inflict pain on ourselves and others, but I can't read about it anymore, not on this scale.
I am happy to be challenged on my view of this, I appreciate as a man I may not understand the full authenticity of the lead characters emotions.
I love stream of consciousness writing, and for me this book did not disappoint, her writing is absolutely stunning, but you have to like that sort of thing. If you can't manage Woolf, or Joyce then don't bother here, as McBride is even more.
That is where my praise ends, this book is pure violence and I would have never read it had I known. There is so much rape, and hate and incest and trauma. The book is trauma, only read it if you are prepared. I have nothing to say that is positive about the plot it is essentially just trauma being passively and actively inflicted on the main character, by herself, others and the catholic church.
For me I can't separate the content from the stunning prose, I found the book so triggering and upsetting that no amount of excellent writing can make up for it. I cannot emphasise enough that you MUST be extremely careful if you undertake to read this book.
Personally if I never read another book about a person getting abused and then engaging in horrendous self hate I will be just fine. I know this stuff happens, and I understand the human capacity to inflict pain on ourselves and others, but I can't read about it anymore, not on this scale.
I am happy to be challenged on my view of this, I appreciate as a man I may not understand the full authenticity of the lead characters emotions.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Cancer, Child abuse, Child death, Death, Emotional abuse, Gore, Incest, Mental illness, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Terminal illness, Torture, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Grief
dimanabookmark's review against another edition
challenging
dark
emotional
medium-paced
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Cancer, Child abuse, Death, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, and Terminal illness
Moderate: Misogyny, Suicide, and Vomit
stella_nutella's review against another edition
challenging
dark
emotional
medium-paced
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
4.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Cancer, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, and Grief
Moderate: Suicide and Terminal illness
deedireads's review against another edition
challenging
dark
emotional
sad
tense
medium-paced
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
All my reviews live at https://deedispeaking.com/reads/.
TL;DR REVIEW:
A Girl Is a Half-formed Thing is devastatingly incredible, but also technically challenging and possibly the most emotionally difficult book I’ve read. But incredible.
For you if: You like to read books in experimental formats, and you are OK with the triggers this one presents.
FULL REVIEW:
TL;DR REVIEW:
A Girl Is a Half-formed Thing is devastatingly incredible, but also technically challenging and possibly the most emotionally difficult book I’ve read. But incredible.
For you if: You like to read books in experimental formats, and you are OK with the triggers this one presents.
FULL REVIEW:
“Do you hear me? Is it ever time for you to understand. I meant I meant that for I never thought you could think you were low. Were lost at the moment when they cut you off. Cut your head out heart brain. It is not I know was not that but to me it was to me. Like I could have seen you in the bright of day. Like the light could have come up from the sea and take you over.”
I read A Girl Is a Half-formed Thing as part of the #ReadingWomen challenge to read all the previous winners of the Women’s Prize. This one won in 2014. Eimear McBride wrote it in six months and then spent ten years trying to sell it. Once she did, it won five awards (including the Women's Prize) and was nominated for three others.
This book is an incredible work of art. It's also technically challenging and possibly the most emotionally difficult book I've ever read.
The novel is not so much a stream of consciousness as a stream of sub-consciousness, told in raw fragments and broken snippets as the narrator takes in the world around her. (See the quote above.) It's the internal subconscious of a girl whose brother's childhood brain tumor looms over everything, so she asserts control over her life and emotions through an increasingly reckless and dangerous sexuality.
I read the first chapter three times (it’s short) to really make sure I understood what was going on, and to get used to the style. And I did get used to it — you end up sinking in. But you also kind of have to get used to reading all the sentences together and then interpreting rather than interpreting each sentence one by one. You have to read it for the forest, not the trees. In fact, if there were ever a book to listen along to the audiobook while you read, it's this one. The author herself narrates, and her personal interpretation of the words on the page was invaluable to my reading of the text. She knows which words are quotes, when the speaker shifts, which words are the ones that require emphasis, which periods to ignore and which to pause at.
I read it in one sitting and was really glad I did — I don't think I could have popped in and out of this roller coaster, emotionally. The ending is really, really hard to read. Disturbing and difficult and raw and also just so impressive.
Ultimately, I was blown away by this one. How did she do that? The narrative skill, the pacing, the trust she puts in her readers. Incredible.
I absolutely recommend this book, but only if you're up for the experimental format and emotionally prepared for the triggers I'll list below. Full review on the blog, link in bio.
TRIGGER WARNINGS:
Statutory rape; Violent rape; Questionably consensual violence during sex; Death (cancer); Suicide
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicide, and Violence
Moderate: Cancer, Death, and Terminal illness
This may be the most emotionally difficult book I've ever read.