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sillih28's review against another edition
3.0
Moderate: Rape and Grief
Minor: Pedophilia, Alcoholism, and Sexual assault
miandi's review against another edition
4.0
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Body shaming, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Misogyny, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship
booksdogsandcoffee's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Rape, Toxic relationship, Adult/minor relationship, Sexual assault, and Alcoholism
Moderate: Genocide, Misogyny, and Sexual content
itsmeyseniab's review against another edition
4.0
how you love yourself is
how you teach others
to love you
I loved how this first collection by Rupi Kaur was split into four chapters: "the hurting," "the loving," "the breaking," and "the healing" - it added another layer to the storytelling as well as showing Rupi's personal growth (that I very much connected with personally). The first chapter was extremely difficult to read and I would not recommend this collection to anyone who may be triggered by topics including assault, toxic relationships and abuse. That being said, the final two chapters (the breaking and the healing) are what made this a four star read for me - ultimately this collection tells the story of a young woman learning to love herself and to never make herself feel small for the sake of others, a sentiment that I think needs to be more prominent in media today.
Although I enjoyed the overall purpose of this collection, I will say the writing itself was just okay. There were some poems that were very heavy and thought-provoking, while others came off as being "filler". I would've liked to see the collection a little bit shorter, but overall I think this is a good collection for anyone looking to get into poetry for the first time.
Graphic: Toxic relationship
Moderate: Sexual content, Rape, Sexual assault, and Misogyny
Minor: Alcoholism
shayh's review against another edition
4.5
This book begins strong and emotional. It brings the reader through the author's journey of pain, love, heartbreak, and healing. Her words are inspirational to those who are dealing with trauma and broken hearts.
Your body is your home; others are guests. This part mentioned in the book stood out to me. I realized how true it is. No one should enter a home and criticize your decoration, natural or not. It's your comfort that matters; it's what makes you genuinely happy about yourself.
Moderate: Rape
Minor: Alcoholism and Emotional abuse
sydney2020's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Emotional abuse, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Mental illness, Alcohol, Gaslighting, Physical abuse, and Rape
hollyfitton1's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Body shaming, Bullying, Domestic abuse, Sexism, Toxic friendship, Toxic relationship, Drug abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Sexual content, and Sexual harassment
book full of meaningful poems, divided into 4 parts. The loving, the hurting, the breaking, and the healingnjesenicka26's review against another edition
4.25
Minor: Alcoholism
kj468's review against another edition
1.5
Moderate: Alcoholism, Emotional abuse, Domestic abuse, Child abuse, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Pedophilia, and Rape
boowsy1's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Rape, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Alcoholism, Sexual assault, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship