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corneliusmcstrawberry's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Sexism and Misogyny
Moderate: Racism, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Grief, Physical abuse, Emotional abuse, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Addiction, Cancer, Suicidal thoughts, Terminal illness, and Death
rieviolet's review against another edition
2.5
On one hand, I really enjoyed some of the author's reflections, for example on the devaluation of friendships in favour of romantic bonds (although I think it was not developed much and a good portion of the book then focused mostly on romantic love) and on the negative effects of patriarchy.
And I really appreciated the definition of love that hooks included in the book: "the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth".
On the other, some reflections did not resonate with me just as much and I struggled to really absorb them, maybe I needed some more in-depth analysis/comment in certain chapters, rather than just vague and general statements.
Some other aspects of the book also left me a bit unconvinced , such as: a framework very much heteronormative and binarist in terms of gender; the sections on work and love; the section critizing Monica Lewinsky (a very uncomfortable passage to read that I could have done without); the reflections about forgiveness (especially when in relation to queer people, thank you but I'm going to stay very far away from bigoted and hurtful people if I am able to do so, even if they are family members).
Also some parts of the book just are not for me personally. Whenever religion, biblical scriptures, angels etc. get mentioned I turn into that Mike Wazowski's meme, "Put that thing back where it came from or so help me!". But that is obviously on me and people who are religious and /or spiritual will certainly connect more with those parts.
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Sexism, and Domestic abuse
Moderate: Death, Physical abuse, Lesbophobia, Child abuse, and Grief
Minor: Cancer, Addiction, and Suicidal thoughts
bonfeld's review against another edition
4.5
Some people took issue with her insertion of religion and the last chapter about angels. Yes, there are several parts of the book that are preachy, where she just says things in a way that squashes questioning it, but that’s philosophy writing for you… In my opinion, the religious aspects were more to be taken as a metaphor - people look towards god and angels as a source of spirituality and divine ness, love can fulfill the same.
Like I said, I think this is an essential read that allows you to take away what’s important/resonates with you and leave what doesn’t.
Moderate: Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Grief, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Misogyny
mallory10100's review against another edition
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Homophobia, Racism, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Biphobia, Grief, Lesbophobia, and Mental illness
sderrig's review against another edition
5.0
Minor: Abandonment, Cancer, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Death, Emotional abuse, Grief, Homophobia, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Terminal illness, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship
courtneyfalling's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Misogyny
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Child abuse, Death, and Grief
caseythereader's review against another edition
3.0
Moderate: Cancer, Child abuse, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Grief, Misogyny, and Physical abuse