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Bliss Montage by Ling Ma

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clovetra's review against another edition

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challenging mysterious slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

2.0

i went in thinking i was gonna love this book. and my main criticism was that i was just bored.
reading this i fully understand why people would love this! i just did not like the writing style at all. and i don't even mean all the speculative fiction. the voice used just didn't vibe with me. it felt very soulless and made me bored. but i did want to see what happened so this is why i did not dnf (also i didn't want any dnfs for 2023 lol don't ask me why) (its probably my autism)
i found it overall incredibly hard to connect with the writing, and not many of the stories were memorable to me.
now a big issue i could've possible had with this book is that this is very. ummm. Smart. writing. and i read this when i had covid! so i may have simply been too dumb to comprehend this and im not even joking bro covid gives me worms for brains.
i found this hard to rank too! like some stories i loved and some i wanted to claw my eyes out because of boredom. in the end i decided to just average out my scores per story but i did round down because ummmmm i wanted to. so lets delve into the stories individually !
los angeles: ok lowkey an odd way to start an anthology! um i kind of enjoyed this one? i liked how it ties into the next one but. the ending is weird. i also did not get what metaphor this is supposed to be! like i couldn't tell if she actually had 100 boyfriends living with her or if she was just a bit insane. did have a bit of a fun time though i won't lie. 2/5
oranges: this one fades into the background for me. i feel like the overall meaning is a bit clearer, as is the protag's voice. i cannot remember anything remarkable about this except where she enters the house. 1/5
g: so cute! this one actually had my attention, as i could empathise with the narrator, but yet again i have no idea what happens at the end lmao. could be my covid brain forgetting what i previously read, could be because my brain thought it wasn't important. the world will never know. 3/5
yeti lovemaking: easily one of the best in this anthology. so insane. balls to the wall core. i love the tenderness displayed and also just how insane this concept is. 4/5
returning: umm this was crazy! i love how a random country was made up i think that's so silly in a good way. anyways i like the interpersonal conflict, as well as the small exerpts from the in universe book. 3/5
office hours: ehh. it was a story. i didn't really find anything to enjoy in this. i think this is just a personal taste thing here, as i could see how this would be considered amazing. i kind of didn't like the protagonist, and not in a "love to hate" way but in a "ur boring" way. oops. 2/5
peking duck: ugh this was great. i forgot i was reading in this one. no comments. 5/5
tomorrow:aaaannnddd im bored again. i did like the dystopian-reality-core, but im sorry the arm really freaked me the fuck out. i could NOT get over the arm. also, with the other stories the ambiguous endings were chill! this ending just annoyed me ngl. i honestly think this should've been moved to the middle as for me, it ruins the pacing of the stories, and probably flows better next to g. but that's just me also shoving the stories i didn't like into one place. also i didn't write this so i should shut the fuck up. anyways personally this is a 2/5.
um i kind of want to read Severance because I've heard such good shit about it!!!! but i also heard good shit bout this and i didn't particularly live laugh love so. we'll see.
anyways much love clover-nation. and ling ma. mainly ling ma im so sorry my love

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perkyanda's review

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challenging emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

I loved this! The lack of resolution for the series Is the only aspect I didn’t love. But I loved the three and connection began stories, and the weirdness and realistic feelings and just aching they came through. I can’t wait till she has another novel or collection out!

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mzynda's review

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emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75


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snowwhitehatesapples's review

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dark mysterious reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? N/A
  • Diverse cast of characters? N/A
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

 Also on Snow White Hates Apples.

Actual Rating: 3.5 stars

Curious, surreal and, in some ways, resonating, Bliss Montage is a collection of eight short stories led by lonely protagonists exploring topics we’re all familiar with: love, loss, alienation, dislocation, family, identity, desire and more.

Beginning with ‘Los Angeles’ , this short story with a seemingly unassuming title immediately sheds its modest skin with an opener explaining the narrator’s living situation with her husband, their children, and her 100 ex-boyfriends. Everything appears to be fine and dandy until her exes start leaving, breaking the utopian fantasy glass castle they had. In this way, the title becomes perfect as this short story portrays a duality akin to the one of the City of Angels where its reality isn’t as dreamy as its name.

‘Oranges' as the follow-up (or more accurately, the prequel) to ‘Los Angeles’ doesn’t have as strong of a magical realism aspect to it, but it remains impactful. An orange, in Chinese culture, means prosperity, abundance and happiness. The roundness of the fruit symbolises togetherness, and in fengshui, oranges can bring good luck and fortune. So, to contrast this positive symbolism of oranges with the pain and trauma of having been in an abusive relationship makes the story more stark and multilayered.

‘G’ , on the other hand, is a clear allegory (under the obvious one about drugs) that represents the two sides of a coin for children of immigrants. Here, we have a narrator who rebelled against her immigrant Chinese mother’s expectations and successfully shed the limitations of having to be perfect — to be all that her parents couldn’t be, to be the embodiment of proving that their sufferings and hardships weren’t wasted. Not as lucky is her old friend Bonnie, who consumes G to become invisible (open and vulnerable too) and thus, free from the obligations binding her. This story ultimately takes a sinister turn as Bonnie finally obtains the freedom she desires.

The fourth short story, ‘Yeti Lovemaking’ has the strangest title of them all yet it’s completely relatable. Everyone wears a different mask (or in this case, skin) for different occasions, situations, societies, etc. Consequently, it can become normal for some to not even show their true selves because not everyone is accepting or understanding. So, the moment the Yeti here finds someone willing to be with him at their most vulnerable state? You bet he’s going to hold on to this connection for as long and as much as he can.

Following this is ‘Returning’ wherein we have an introspective on a multitude of themes from the books written by the characters and from the short story itself. From being trapped by expectations to immigrant identity, we go through these themes as we navigate the story of a narrator who cheated on her husband, her husband’s desire to be reborn, and the festival of his homeland where people are buried alive and those who return, return anew.

‘Office Hours’ , as the sixth short story, explores the complexity of desire, the stressors of modern life that make true happiness and peace seemingly unattainable, along with how reality can make one lonely and untethered at times. Here, we have the narrator who’s achieving her professional goals and yet, she finds herself constantly exploring the alternate reality her deceased university professor introduced to her, taking comfort in how time doesn’t move there.

Perhaps the one where Ling Ma expresses most directly her views on immigrant culture, ‘Peking Duck’ revolves around a first-generation Asian American, her Chinese immigrant mother and their discussion on who certain stories belong to. While the daughter may have been present in certain events of her mother’s life, this doesn’t explicitly mean the story the daughter tells is hers. Hence, the resentment toward the child for using a mother’s personal struggles as part of their identity and stories. This also leads to a pivot from the daughter’s POV to the mother’s POV in the end, though we can’t tell if it’s truly the mother’s recollection of what happened in the past or if it’s the daughter’s rendition.

The collection ends with ‘Tomorrow’ wherein a pregnant woman finds herself with a baby boy mostly developing in her womb, minus his arm that’s sticking outside of her body. In a way, this is a metaphor for how nightmarish and terrifying motherhood can be. In another, it shows how easily and quickly others will shun anyone they deem abnormal.

Everything considered, this is a clever collection of short stories that require careful attention and inspection of the many meanings hidden between the lines. It’s not one that you can just breeze through, which was what I attempted the first time round and that left me confused as too many things flew over my head. Truly, I think the best way to read Bliss Montage is with a mind ready to dissect the text because Ling Ma is brilliant at distorting reality by injecting fantasy elements while questioning and reflecting on what makes humans human

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robinks's review

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adventurous dark mysterious reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

This was such an interesting collection of stories. They all left me feeling a bit uneasy and unresolved, though the fantastic elements in each of the stories were quite creative. I particularly enjoyed Oranges and Peking Duck.

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erinmjustice's review

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challenging emotional reflective slow-paced

4.0


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odrib's review

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reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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hngisreading's review

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dark mysterious reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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thewordsdevourer's review against another edition

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challenging reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

4.0

bliss montage is a great collection of stories, some either more unpredictable or reflective than others, but all subtly gripping in their own way.

the volume opens w/ a bang w/ "los angeles," perhaps the most delightfully eclectic short story ive ever read, so unconventional yet - by the end - thrilling it is. thru her stories, ma wrestles w/ coming of age, the immigrant experience, the self, and relationships. ma's pondering on the first one esp hits true, her incredible, precise articulation of the strange weightless void post-undergrad bleak, quiet, yet comforting in the knowledge that others share this experience. im also amazed by how the author's able to capture and vocalize the inner condition and struggles that exist merely under the surface.

a great sophomore effort thats even better than its already good predecessor, and one of the best - tho def most eclectic - short story collection ive ever read.

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