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rosiereading's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A
5.0
Graphic: Rape, Sexism, and Sexual assault
Minor: Bullying, Alcohol, Child abuse, and Eating disorder
samlo28's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Bullying, Suicidal thoughts, Homophobia, Sexism, Death, Xenophobia, Racial slurs, Ableism, Self harm, Rape, Eating disorder, Addiction, Child death, Child abuse, and Gun violence
mosshroomish's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
edit, now that i've had time to sit with my thoughts and cry them out...
i already knew this author was good, but to see how he creates life in people that don't exist is truly astounding. everyone was written with care and understanding. everyone had realistic and deep relationships. everyone was flawed and absolutely and thoroughly human. everyone made mistakes, everyone had triumphs. everyone believed they were making the best decision they could in their circumstances, and you're forced to sit with some uncomfortable realizations that you might've done the same because you're also human. this is a book i finished in one sitting because i could not put it down. this is a book that will stick with me forever. this is a book i will recommend to everyone i know. i will probably buy a copy and reread it multiple times.
in some more nitty gritty aspects:
some people find it hard to follow the multiple POV, but i felt that because every single character was so completely fleshed out, it wasn't as difficult.
i'm also a sucker for repetition, especially lines that stay nearly identical but hit in different ways the further you progress. the author does an amazing job of placing these lines in just the right spot to sucker punch you dead.
the author has a prose-poem style of writing, if that's the sort of thing you're into as well (i definitely am). the words he weaves create an incredible tapestry that seemed to just flow directly into my brain.
all in all, this was an incredible book about community, sports, and childhood, and how they all come together in different ways to create separate individuals.
Graphic: Sexual violence, Violence, and Rape
Minor: Child abuse and Suicide
andrewhatesham's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual violence, Violence, Injury/Injury detail, and Self harm
Moderate: Cursing, Child death, and Sexism
Minor: Alcoholism, Blood, Racism, Bullying, Child abuse, Grief, Classism, Vomit, Gun violence, Alcohol, Homophobia, and Pregnancy
miaaa_lenaaa's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Ok
Um
That held literally fucking nothing back
What
That was impressively hard to read because it was very well written
I love ramona and benji and bobo (i listened to the audiobook so idk it’s that’s how theyre spelt)
‘Its never your fault is it? When are you going to admit that it isnt hockey that raises these boys its you’
Graphic: Child abuse, Physical abuse, Gaslighting, Blood, Violence, Rape, Vomit, Misogyny, and Alcohol
smashingreads's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Loveable characters? Yes
5.0
“The only thing the sport gives us are moments. But what the hell is life, Peter, apart from moments?”
Being a parent makes you feel like a blanket that’s always too small. No matter how hard you try to cover everyone, there’s always someone who’s freezing.
So the first thing that happens in a conflict is that we choose a side, because that’s easier than trying to hold two thoughts in our heads at the same time. The second thing that happens is that we seek out facts that confirm what we want to believe—comforting facts, ones that permit life to go on as normal. The third is that we dehumanize our enemy. There are many ways of doing that, but none is easier than taking her name away from her.
When I was little, my dad used to hit me if I spilled my milk, Leo. That didn’t teach me not to spill things. It just made me scared of milk. Remember that.”
Graphic: Bullying, Rape, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Child abuse and Homophobia
meb1916's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
I think this book is incredibly important for a lot of reasons, and I'm grateful I read it.
Graphic: Bullying, Homophobia, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Sexual assault, Rape, Injury/Injury detail, Mental illness, Pregnancy, Alcoholism, Physical abuse, Misogyny, and Sexism
Moderate: Child abuse and Child death
coybean's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Moderate: Death, Misogyny, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Child abuse, Hate crime, Bullying, Grief, Homophobia, Child death, Cursing, Rape, Classism, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Sexual violence, Violence, and Xenophobia
Minor: Stalking, Murder, Self harm, Alcoholism, Racial slurs, Eating disorder, Alcohol, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship
infinite_mirrors's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
At times I did get tired of the sort of passive, anecdotal nature of the prose. It really slowed the narrative down and made every moment a meditative think-piece, which is great and moving once in a while but is tiresome when employed in every other paragraph of a novel.
There were many characters in this book. The first third or so of the novel dragged a bit as every one of them had their backgrounds, beliefs, and interpersonal relationships dissected; not that it wasn't enjoyable or well-written! It was just very slow. Speaking of the characters, they were real, nuanced, flawed human beings... except for the times when they were caricatures of good and evil. Maya in particular, the victim of a horrible crime, ceased being a regular 15-year-old as soon as the crime was committed and became a paragon of ideal martyrdom. Most of the other characters had their mistakes and good and bad moments in turn, but Maya was like wise and mature saint, more a stand-in for victims everywhere than her own person. I'm not sure if this was intentional on the author's part or a very ironic outcome of trying to treat victims with respect and dignity. This is a minor grievance and didn't detract too much from the story for me, but it was noticeable.
A warning, because I didn't get one: sexual assault was a major plot point, and a catalyst for the events of the novel. The topic was treated with the care and gravitas it deserves, but the author did not gloss over or shy away from the horror and trauma of it. So read with caution.
Graphic: Sexual assault, Rape, Bullying, and Homophobia
Moderate: Child death, Alcoholism, Child abuse, and Transphobia
xiggy's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Hate crime, Alcohol, Death of parent, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Domestic abuse, Racism, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Child abuse, Drug use, Gun violence, Injury/Injury detail, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Cursing, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, and Suicidal thoughts