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Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka Murata

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dark funny reflective sad tense fast-paced
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I haven't read a book that has made me this angry in a long time. I hated everyone other than the main female lead, Keiko Furukura. Keiko is a 36 year old woman and I wanted her to be accepted and live in peace at her beloved convenience store. It angered me when her family couldn't muster any enthusiasm for her life or what she wants. It was a pretty depressing book to be honest. I listened to this while commuting to work, and I yelled at the characters multiple times. Well done, Sayaka Murata, this made me seethe. The end came quick and I appreciated that Keiko got a happy ending for herself finally, she deserves the world. The whole time it felt like she was neuroatypical (and asexual) and the people around her never bothered to communicate authentically with her; it would've been so easy to communicate more clearly with her. Instead, they only lessened my faith in humanity. I really enjoyed the reflections on what is and isn't normal in society and how we all are a blend of the people around us, I bet I'll look back on this in the future to reflect on it. 
I would punch Shiraha if I ever met him in real life.
why is he spewing this caveman shit? I thought he might turn out redeemable in the end, but my hate for him just kept increasing. He disrespected Keiko so many fucking times, was mysogenistic, and never actually saw her as a human being. The cognitive dissonance on this man-child was astounding. What a piece of burning trash.


Favorite quotes: 

-"at that moment, for the first time ever, I felt I'd become a part in the machine of society. I've been reborn, I thought. That day, I actually became a normal cog in society." 
-"however hard I work, however dependable I am, when my body grows old, then no doubt I too will be a worn out part, ready to be replaced. No longer any use to the convenience store."
-"our society doesn't allow any foreign objects. I've always suffered because of that."
-"you eliminate the parts of your life that others find strange. Maybe that's what everyone means when they say they want to cure me."
-"I would carry my genes carefully to my grave, being sure not to rashly leave any behind. And I would dispose of them properly when I died." 😭 fuck all of you for making Keiko think this! 
-the ending when she told shiraha that there is more meaning in being a convenience store worker than being with his dusty lowlife self 😂 loved that! 

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This book reminded me a bit of the film Parasite, probably due to the criticism of society as it's main theme. It was interesting to see such a satirical and light-hearted book
end on kind of a grim note.
 

Although I've heard some people say that the main character might be neurodivergent (and it may well be), personally I don't really think so - I think she really is totally fictional and made for the sole purpose of showing the society in this really grotesque way. I really liked how capitalist corporate culture is being portrayed as sort of a religion. And I also loved the feminist touch of this novel, especially when the main character treats people as idiots (that they are).

All in all very refreshing and quirky, just like the cover says. It makes you feel comfortable about where you are in life but at the same time critically think about capitalist structures.

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challenging reflective sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Yes
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Complicated

//IF YOU'RE NEURODIVERGENT AND STRUGGLING WITH SELF WORTH DON'T READ THIS BOOK// 

As a neurodivergent asexual person, the issues brought up just trying to prove that you're worth as much to society as neurotypical heterosexuals hit home like a hammer. I really wanted to like this book but it feels like the writer is ableist at the end of the day. When finished I had to practice some serious self worth exercises.

Whilst admorable that Keiko is content with her situation, she is taken advantage of and put down by everyone around her with no hint that this shouldn't be the case. She masks all day everyday and nothing is said about how emotionally and physically damaging doing this is. And no notion that 'atypical' people should have career progression equal relationships and a strong supportive network. 

Normal people treat Keiko badly. It may read like they're supportive but they aren't. Nothing suggests they should try to meet Keiko where she is. Later in the book she agrees to help someone and the author keeps saying how Keiko thinks she's getting something out of it. She isn't. She's just being used.

'If you don't fit in then stay at the bottom. If you don't fit in it's all on you to fake and wear a mask' are the ultimate messages here. 

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sad medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: No
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes

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funny inspiring lighthearted relaxing fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

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dark funny lighthearted reflective relaxing fast-paced
Plot or Character Driven: A mix
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Hauska ja helposti suositeltava, sillee elokuvan pitunen ja vetävä… kepeä ja tarkkanäkönen kommentti!! Kiva että päätty niinku päätty 

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Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: N/A
Loveable characters: Yes
Diverse cast of characters: N/A
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

I didn’t exactly expect this story from this book, it gave me pretty strong Parasite vibes at certain points and is unlike anything else I’ve ever read before, big recommend!

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