Reviews with content warning for Sexual content - Afterparties

AFTERPARTIES offers snapshots into the lives of Cambodian refugees, and their [American-born] children, living and working in America. In each story, we meet a new narrator and a new cast of characters, each of them fully realised. From women escaping violent relationships and men having threesomes, to your sister being reincarnated as your great-niece and an unlikely friendship with a Monk; each of the storylines in this collection was unique and complex.

Often exploring difficult or complex themes, AFTERPARTIES holds a special focus on the Cambodian genocide (1975-1979) and the lasting effects on those who survived it. The collection explores intergenerational trauma, and trauma in general; the marks it leaves upon us, and a possible new path forward for survivors.

At times entertaining, at other points unsettling or disturbing; Anthony Veasna So's writing is evocative and immersive. I'm grateful to have read an early copy of this title via Netgalley.

I was devastated to learn of Anthony Veasna So's passing - a writer that has been taken from us far too soon. My thoughts are with his partner, family, and loved ones. And thank you to Anthony Veasna So for writing these stories and choosing to put them out into the world.

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librariangeorgia's review

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challenging hopeful reflective sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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melaniereadsbooks's review

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challenging reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

Thank you to Netgalley and Ecco for an arc of this book.

This is a collection of stories about what it means to be Cambodian-American. It combines stories from the older generation that immigrated to America during the Cambodian Genocides, to the younger generation and what it is like to live in that shadow.

This is such a powerful collection of stories. The writing is really strong and intense. I loved the stories that included queer characters. I also really loved the way all the stories began to come together the farther you got into the book. I really enjoyed how they were connected to form this community. Great book.

Pub Date: August 3, 2021

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notabookseller's review

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emotional funny sad slow-paced

3.0

Thank you to NetGalley and Ecco for providing me with an ARC in exchange for my honest review. Afterparties is scheduled for release on August 3rd, 2021.

As I read this book I felt like by the time I finished a story I’d missed something. Most of the book read as slice of life stories, which I love, but after a while some of them began to feel like the same premise with slight variations on the same broad strokes (family, sexuality, and sense of belonging). I find that “Human Development” tackles these topics in the most engaging manner and in a way that feels most connected to present-day America.

Overall, my favorite stories were “Three Women of Chuck’s Donuts,” and “Somaly Serey, Serey Somaly.”

“Three Women...” is a great leading story as it immediately grabs the reader’s attention with the introduction of this mysterious man who comes into the shop every night to sit at a table with a donut he does not touch; however, it feels out of place with most, if not all, of the other stories as it has the most obvious plot driving it and it is heavily influenced by a specific and immediate familial trauma rather than a cultural one (the genocide that is referenced frequently throughout the book).

“Somaly Serey, Serey Somaly” calls back to an earlier story, “Maly, Maly, Maly,” 23 years later, after the birth of baby Serey who is believed to be the reincarnation of Somaly, who is Maly’s mother. This story is about Serey’s journey to relieve herself of trauma that she did not experience while also being the sole caregiver for her great-aunt who has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. As a child of immigrants I find Serey to be a very relatable narrator who I was able to connect with on a personal level.

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mezzano's review

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inspiring reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

There reached a point reading Afterparties where I was convinced Anthony Veasna So was writing nonfiction. So's mastery of the written word created a world rich with compelling characters and deep surroundings. So's focus on Cambodians and Cambodian-Americans also provided a narrative highly underrepresented in literature, without tokenizing any character from its wide cast. Even more impressive is how many of the stories are woven and connected together, as the stories all take place in the same surrounding area of California.

So's strongest stories are those which focus intensely on a particular character. Each story displays how trauma has affected an entire community, even those who are an ocean away from memories of genocide, poverty, and war. Superking Son Scores Again is a great story as it blends the past generational traumas with the pressures and expectations of young students today, but using badminton as a driving force for the story. Human Development focuses on a teacher who is teaching Moby Dick to students, while surrounded by a sea of connections who are making plenty of money focusing on technological advancements and applications. This story was particularly memorable, as the main character is both envious and flawed, but still trying to find his own meaning after graduating from esteemed universities. There are plenty of stories which don't focus on students or education at all, such as Three Women of Chuck's Donuts and Generational Differences, which all bring something to think about and relish in their own right. While some of the middle stories blend together at times, this is mostly the result of certain stories shining more brightly than others than any story being particularly dim or boring.

Upon learning of Anthony Veasana So's untimely death, I found it saddening that there would be no second collection of stories. Still, So's debut feels like an instant classic--a must have for any bookshelf.

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