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ciarasweeney's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, and Sexual violence
samarakroeger's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
I think fans of Conversations With Friends would eat this up (including me)
Graphic: Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Mental illness, Rape, Suicide attempt, Domestic abuse, Self harm, Gaslighting, and Pregnancy
nerdynursereads's review
4.5
I really loved this book. It’s sad and poetic. At times Lilja’s story really resonated with me. Those feelings of trying so hard to make yourself into someone your partner wants. The gaslighting. The depression.
The writing really is exquisite. I can’t wait to read more from this author.
My only complaint is the ending felt too abrupt. I wanted a couple more sections to find out more about Lilja. Does she’s stay with her terrible not boyfriend??? Does she flee??? I need to know.
Graphic: Suicide, Suicidal thoughts, Self harm, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Bullying, Sexual violence, Panic attacks/disorders, and Blood
travelseatsreads's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Thóra tells Lilja's story using short diary-like chapters which gives the reader an insight into the tortuous events Lilja experiences daily. I think this format worked beautifully for this piece as it really allowed us into the mind of Lilja & how she was experiencing & interpreting the situation. People often look in at abusive relationships & pontificate the age old line "Why doesn't she leave?". Thóra's brutal showing of Lilja's inner thought's answers that quite quickly. We see her mental health & any scrap of belief in herself be completely obliterated until the point where she believes it's all her fault & she sees no alternative, besides making herself 'better'. This evoked some strong emotions as I really just wanted Lilja to be able to see her own self worth & to be able to escape this torment.
This book does not apologise for being raw & brutal in its telling of Lilja's story. With unflinching honesty Hjörleifsdóttir shows the deep effects of gaslighting & domestic abuse. The format of the chapters along with Thóra's beautiful yet tense prose had me holding my breath at many points. I couldn’t bear to put it down & finished in one sitting.
Unfortunately, when some authors write victims of abuse they can portray them in an almost naive & weak manner but I loved that Hjörleifsdóttir portrays Lilja as a strong, beautiful & intelligent young woman who has succumbed to a torrent of abuse.
Thóra Hjörleifsdóttir has tackled the rampant pandemic issue of domestic abuse with a raw & brutal yet beautiful & considerate touch & shines a light on the fact that there are so many more Lilja's sitting out there in desperation, isolation & silence.
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Pregnancy, Toxic relationship, Gaslighting, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide attempt
ramblingoutloud's review
Graphic: Self harm, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Sexual content
Minor: Child abuse and Domestic abuse
raniaa's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? N/A
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Medical content, Rape, Gaslighting, Injury/Injury detail, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Blood, Infidelity, Sexual violence, Suicide attempt, Toxic relationship, and Mental illness
Minor: Vomit and Fatphobia
kate_reads_books's review
3.0
This is a short but very confronting story about a young woman desperately in love and eager to please her extremely abusive boyfriend who won't call himself or admit to being her boyfriend. Not only is he gaslighting her, emotionally abusing her and cheating on her, he also coerces her to complete sexual acts she isn't comfortable doing to 'win' his love and affection.
Reader beware. As a victim of sexual assult and an abusive relationship I wish I had gone into this book more aware of the story. If I had I absolutely wouldn't have read it.
Despite the depiction of abuse, it is a well written story and captivating for sure.
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Suicide attempt
whatvictoriaread's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Graphic: Self harm, Sexual violence, Blood, Body shaming, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Injury/Injury detail, Pregnancy, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Vomit
mondovertigo's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Suicide attempt, Suicidal thoughts, Rape, Toxic relationship, Sexual violence, Sexual content, Sexual assault, Self harm, Physical abuse, Mental illness, Infidelity, Gaslighting, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Body shaming and Eating disorder
Minor: Pregnancy, Drug abuse, and Drug use
abbie_'s review against another edition
Graphic: Blood, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Infidelity, Injury/Injury detail, Self harm, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Body shaming, Rape, and Vomit