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kyrstin_p1989's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Drug use, Infidelity, Terminal illness, Medical content, Grief, Car accident, Abortion, Death of parent, and Toxic friendship
tatyclj's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Cancer, Chronic illness, Grief, and Death of parent
megsrowley's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Chronic illness, Medical content, Grief, Abortion, Death of parent, and Alcohol
blairnecessities's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Grief, Car accident, and Death of parent
Minor: Abortion
haleymaple's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Grief, and Death of parent
Minor: Alcoholism
sydneymunkey's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Terminal illness, and Death of parent
Moderate: Alcoholism, Abortion, and Alcohol
angstyevie's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Medical content, Medical trauma, Car accident, Death of parent, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Alcoholism and Alcohol
Minor: Infidelity and Abortion
sarahehsan's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Chronic illness and Death of parent
peppers_books's review against another edition
5.0
anyways,,
one thing i noticed is that it felt like she jumped around different periods of her life for no rhyme or reason and would drop random information on us unexpectedly. like it's present day, then we're back ten years, oh and btw they have a family dog! it might not seem important but it made the experience seem disjointed and broke up the flow of the book. the biggest thing though was when she just dropped a relatively detailed description of her fathers abusive childhood? i didn't understand the purpose and it was honestly kind of shocking to just be like bam! terrible thing that doesn't expand on what is currently being talked about. okay moving on.
i am korean as well and that is such a big part of her identity, so this book is special to me in its own way. i could connect with and see my own experience reflected back which made it more impactful.
i will say, a huge huge warning for death of a parent due to cancer. as i mentioned, nothing felt sugar coated so all the ugly realities of illness and grief and anger are there in plain sight.
Graphic: Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Terminal illness, Grief, and Death of parent
Moderate: Emotional abuse and Fatphobia
Minor: Child abuse
laeley's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Infidelity, Medical content, Medical trauma, and Death of parent