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3.9 AVERAGE
3.9 AVERAGE
3.5 good memoir, a lot on politics which was a learning experience for me.
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Vulnerable and hopeful. Sellers has experienced so much in his life and has great historical perspective. While he calls the book a memoir, he is not at the center. He focuses on the challenges of the poor in his home state of South Carolina. Thank you for opening up my eyes to another slice of America.
Reading this memoir made me feel as if I know Bakari Sellers personally. I really identify with his views on life as a "young-ish" black person in America. He is so wonderfully articulate on CNN and similarly audacious in this book. I laughed, cried and got angry. It took me on a journey!
I have a hard time scoring people’s memoirs cause it’s their life but I love the historical and contemporary context that Sellers uses to tell his story. I think he has a great storytelling voice and it makes for very easy reading.
Possibly Sellers is a better as a speaker. The writing never really got past article or essay depth. I think a long interview with a good interviewer would have pulled more out of him. Aspects of his story were definitely interesting, yet the telling of them left me wanting more of the feeling versus the outline of experience. As it goes.
This is a bit different than I expected based on the description of the book. I really liked the beginning. He laid out what it was like to be rural and black in America, but then he said went into details about his life or how he acted with friends that just didn’t seem relevant to what I thought the book was going to be. And then that essentially became the book. A retelling of his experiences in life to this point, focused a lot around people and elections. I thought the book was going to be more about experiences of people in those communities, what is missing, and what is needed. There were good tidbits, but it wasn’t the focus. Shame.
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Bakari Sellers addresses a few themes in his memoir, My Vanishing Country. Primarily, he talks about being a young black man in rural South Carolina. But his family is also intricately tied to the Civil Rights movement, so this connection influences him daily. He also practiced law and ran for office while still in his twenties. Now he’s a political commentator for CNN. But lest you think this book is all about his career, it’s not. He shares personal viewpoints and experiences, including his family’s experience with labor, postpartum, and the serious illness of one of their twins.
For a fairly short book, My Vanishing Country is wide-ranging. And Sellers considers ambitious ideas, tying them all together in the moments of his own life. I learned about the 1968 Orangeburg, SC massacre of South Carolina State University students rising up about Civil Rights. While Sellers wasn’t there, his father was part of the protest and this experience informed their family life.
Sellers talks about being a student at the historically Black University, Morehouse College, as well as his law school experience. He name drops continually but in the context of events such as interning for South Carolina Congressman James Clyburn.
Learning about Sellers and his family’s background in our country’s Civil Rights Movement is interesting. He tells the story well, using a humble attitude and a desire to serve. His political accomplishments and involvement are a natural outgrowth of this upbringing.
My conclusions
While the political aspects of this memoir interest me, I also appreciated the private parts of his story. For example, Sellers opens up about his struggles with anxiety. He uses this as an opportunity to encourage other men of color to seek treatment themselves. And he talks about people in his life who didn’t do so or waited many decades. While his telling is mostly matter-of-fact, it’s also vulnerable.
And Sellers also shares the beginnings of his relationship with Ellen, his wife. Once they’ve married, she gets pregnant with twins. Of course, this is an exciting and sweet story. But she also lives through medical complications of labor. And their daughter had significant medical needs at a very young age. Sellers uses these experiences to talk about the harsh realities of racial bias in the US healthcare system. The couple used specific strategies to mitigate these biases, and Sellers explains how those decisions saved Ellen’s life.
Overall, this is an ambitious memoir. Sellers covers a variety of topics and balances the broader concepts with smaller details. His writing style is engaging, but his audiobook narration is only just okay. When a political author narrates their memoir it sometimes feels like speechifying rather than a conversation. The balance is a hard one to strike.
I recommend My Vanishing Country if you’re curious about Sellers or the worlds he inhabits.
Pair with another Morehouse and Civil Rights Movement adjacent memoir, Buses Are a Comin’: Memoir of a Freedom Rider by Charles Person. Or try Van Jones’ Beyond the Messy Truth: How We Came Apart, How We Come Together since both men are political commentators. For more about the racial bias Black women face in the US healthcare system, try Thick by Tressie McMillan Cottom.
challenging
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced