elishahdavis's review against another edition

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1.5

hahahaha
okay so this book— it’s— okay wait, i’m sorry *puts down microphone* i don’t think i can review this book with a straight face

but actually, it’s not written that bad and the epilogue written by the author’s wife was cute. i have to deduct points for the amount of times he would say “us men ______”. also the book constantly contradicts itself; the author spends a chapter explaining something then spends the next chapter saying “but also the opposite could be true blah blah blah it’s about balance blah blah blah i just realized you can’t generalize half of the world’s entire population into one category”.

however, this made me laugh so much, even though it wasn’t intended. plus, i don’t think he technically gave out any misinformation and he cited sources outside of “my brain thought this so it’s right” so the book gets a few points for that

basically it’s dumb and don’t read it but if you find it at a book sale for free then maybe flip through it so you can laugh at it

jungle_catfish's review against another edition

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3.0

3.5 rounded up. This book is 15 years old and it shows. The references are dated and there's some patronizing "we all know women are smarter than men" crap. That said, I found some parts enlightening and encouraging. The key takeaway is to be honest with yourself about what you're doing and why.

britreads's review against another edition

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4.0

I wasn't really sure why I picked up this book. Maybe it looked too appealing on the library shelf. Or maybe I was curious to see what dating books were like. In any case, I enjoyed the book. A lot of his advice didn't apply to me, but the ending of the book was reassuring. And my curiosity has been sated for the time being.

melmar's review

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3.0

It was a quick read. good advice over all. Take home message: Know yourself, be true and honest to who you are

sarahbethbrown's review

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2.0

ugh oh god, i really did read this book, though by the end, i was down to about 10 words a page. i, um, do not recommend it, though it was good fodder for conversation. Also, i am currently doing 100% of the things the book told me not to. Am not raising my standards, am not reaching for the love i deserve, am mostly hoping for the best.
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