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Excuse Me While I Ugly Cry by Joya Goffney

bloodmaarked's review against another edition

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emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

i think i had high expectations for excuse me while i ugly cry given the high praise, as well as how much i loved confessions of an alleged good girl earlier this year. while it wasn't nearly as good, probably due to it being her debut, i still had a really lovely time.

darkromancefiend08's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

It was amazing. It was completely sweet and funny. I literally never wanted to put it downšŸ„². 

Quinn was a little cringe and a lost black girl. I say lost in the sense that she had a lot of white friends who often just categorised her as white even though she wasn't. She went through most things that every black girl goes through and she never felt like she had enough black friends (to be fair, she didn't have any in the beginning of the book). 

Carter is hot, funny, sexy and lowkey reminds me of Malakai from Honey and Spice. Not in the way his character is, but in the way he treats the women in his life and the girl he loves.

Quinn has a journal (note, I also have a diary, need to burn itšŸ˜­), she writes down EVERYTHING in there. Carter accidentally takes it and loses it resulting in someone blackmailing her to do what's on her list. She eventually finds it (spoiler, it's the white bitch who's racist and petty). In the process, she finds who she is without the journal and makes amazing black friends along with a whitey who isn't too bad (jokes, we love auden).


I found myself smiling half the time and laughing in the middle of class so this book was extraordinary. If a book can make me laugh... it has my thumbs up. 

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lynnae's review against another edition

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meh ya isn't really my thing anymore

halfshook's review against another edition

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hopeful lighthearted reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

books like these are so important especially in the YA genre. teens absolutely need representation that looks and sounds like them in every aspect of their lives and this book is really good at giving an insight into the Black teen experience especially in regards to their proximity to whiteness and how this affects their livelihoods. and itā€™s also wonderful at depicting a Black teen romance as these can be so hard to come by and teens deserved to see themselves in the books they read. 

however, everything else about this book is very mid. the characters donā€™t feel fleshed out in other aspects especially the side characters (looking at you auden). their relationships move FAST whether thatā€™s platonic or romantic and it just didnā€™t feel realistic in any capacity. the writing itself is juvenile even for YA especially for characters who are 18. i would look past it if they were 15/16 but this is aimed at the older end of the category and it just does not read like it. 

i wanted to like this book unfortunately i didnā€™t like the characters very much (except olivia she is a delight) and the plot was wrapped up so quickly that it felt like i had blinked and missed it. 

l_reads27's review

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emotional funny lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.75

mateusortiz's review against another edition

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lighthearted relaxing fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

mkhudson86's review against another edition

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lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

sbhumphreys's review against another edition

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5.0

I couldnā€™t shut up about this book the whole time I was reading it. Itā€™s funny, sweet, heartbreaking, and real. Thereā€™s so much going on throughout, but instead of feeling confused and muddled, it feels layered. Quinn feels like a real teenager, and her growth is satisfying and earned. Her POV and voice was so funny and fun to read and again just sweet (and as a recovered painfully shy teen, relatable)

The romance is adorable and sweet. More of this, please.

The parts with her grandmother were personally hard for me, but it was also cathartic. It was one of the heavier details of the book, though itā€™s not a huge part of the narrative since Iā€™d say itā€™s primarily romance.

The themes of casual racism, micro aggressions, and racial identity were also heavy, but not heavy handed. Iā€™m not particularly qualified to speak to how realistic, but I did think it was well done. Goffney did a great job illustrating how thoughtless words and actions can cause real harm, even when you think it a ā€œjoke.ā€ This story is relatable to any teenager, but I think especially empowering for young black women.

Anyway, 10/10 recommend, more of all of this, please.

cici1722's review against another edition

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4.0

This was way too cute & wayyyy too real. I got a lot of mean girl vibes but in young black girl. I loved it. I was beaming & gushing over these kids finding themselves & their voices.

canopy_'s review against another edition

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4.0

I wish this book had been just a little bit longer. I felt like the relationship between her and Matt deserved a longer ending since they had been best friends. But overall it was really cute and also eye opening.