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crags617's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Homophobia, Emotional abuse, Eating disorder, Transphobia, Lesbophobia, Dysphoria, Gaslighting, Toxic relationship, and Panic attacks/disorders
Moderate: Self harm
shadowlesbian's review against another edition
3.0
Graphic: Transphobia, Dysphoria, Homophobia, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Vomit and Blood
mychemegan's review against another edition
2.5
Graphic: Sexual harassment, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Stalking, Bullying, Deadnaming, Dysphoria, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Medical content, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual content, Self harm, Sexual assault, and Suicidal thoughts
catsbreadbikes's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Homophobia, Transphobia, and Lesbophobia
Moderate: Dysphoria, Body shaming, Bullying, Deadnaming, Violence, Stalking, Sexual assault, Eating disorder, and Sexual content
kelisabeth's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Deadnaming, Grief, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Adult/minor relationship, Alcohol, Panic attacks/disorders, Religious bigotry, Dysphoria, Hate crime, Rape, Sexual content, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Biphobia, Child abuse, Sexual harassment, Alcoholism, Blood, Sexism, Toxic friendship, Stalking, Emotional abuse, Pandemic/Epidemic, Transphobia, Drug use, Medical content, Eating disorder, Gaslighting, Gun violence, Toxic relationship, Cursing, Injury/Injury detail, Mental illness, Physical abuse, and Self harm
moonyreadsbystarlight's review against another edition
5.0
I really resonated with the way he described some more internal experiences - as a fellow pisces, that internal escapism is unfortunately quite a mood (especially re: the closet and gender dysphoria). I really enjoyed the different aspects of relationships he discussed in here and the discussion of boundaries and autonomy. There were definitely some hard parts to read emotionally, but it was all really well done and I really liked this book!
Graphic: Homophobia, Mental illness, Sexual harassment, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Suicidal thoughts, Vomit, Dysphoria, Excrement, Bullying, Outing, Sexual assault, and Transphobia
Moderate: Body shaming, Injury/Injury detail, and Medical content
Minor: Colonisation
stellahadz's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Sexual assault, Dysphoria, Stalking, Transphobia, and Homophobia
Moderate: Medical content, Eating disorder, Blood, Panic attacks/disorders, Injury/Injury detail, and Deadnaming
Minor: Excrement and Vomit
rizzykaye's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Dysphoria, Self harm, Body shaming, Emotional abuse, Bullying, Homophobia, Mental illness, Deadnaming, Lesbophobia, Eating disorder, Sexual assault, Transphobia, and Suicidal thoughts
rsagarin's review against another edition
4.25
Moderate: Bullying, Drug use, Dysphoria, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Misogyny, Self harm, Transphobia, Pandemic/Epidemic, Alcohol, Outing, Sexual harassment, Body shaming, Medical content, Cursing, Eating disorder, Deadnaming, Vomit, Homophobia, and Sexual content
hazelwood's review against another edition
3.5
That said, I haven't read many memoirs in my life, so take this with a grain of salt: I didn't really like the way the book is written with the events all out of order. It was confusing and tended to give me metaphorical whiplash. But maybe that's just the way memoirs are. I also wish that Elliot had gone into more about his transition and his feelings about it. The whole thing felt rushed into at the end of the book, with only a few sentences about taking hormones. I get it if he wants privacy about his current life, but considering how depressing the rest of the book's events are, I feel like readers could benefit from seeing more of the light at the end of the tunnel. Perhaps the memoir could have been left to simmer for a few years while Elliot got used to his "new" life, giving him more moments of trans joy to write about?
Graphic: Eating disorder, Sexual violence, Vomit, Panic attacks/disorders, Transphobia, Excrement, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Bullying, Dysphoria, Medical content, Sexual assault, Stalking, Rape, Drug use, Hate crime, Deadnaming, Alcoholism, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Mental illness, Misogyny, Outing, Self harm, Sexual harassment, and Suicidal thoughts